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Breaking my own rule to say yes, quite possibly, but I have to say I'd be more worried about her with a herd of cows than a couple of horses!What about other animals around you. Can she get work with cattle or sheep?
Breaking my own rule to say yes, quite possibly, but I have to say I'd be more worried about her with a herd of cows than a couple of horses!What about other animals around you. Can she get work with cattle or sheep?
As I read it your daughter is under 18? If so she is required by law to be in some form of education. Maybe she should go to college. Yes it will involve her going away from home as it seems you live a long way from anywhere but then I guess that many of the college students will also be living at college so there would be a good social life?
I am sorry but it is not safe for your daughter to be taking responsibilty for other peoples animals without supervision especially in this day and age of people suing for everything. Please think again.
but you don't just walk into a herd of cattle, as with all animals you learn about safety and how to work with them and how to read them. If your area is remote and it is difficult to get holiday etc care then perhaps there would be a job opportunity for someone taking care of different sorts of animals as well as horsesBreaking my own rule to say yes, quite possibly, but I have to say I'd be more worried about her with a herd of cows than a couple of horses!
Agreed, lots of smallholders here too. She's actually not only thinking about horses, she has tons of experience with small animals & fish for example, and she's totally up for goats, chickens etc, but obviously it's horses that I asked about herebut you don't just walk into a herd of cattle, as with all animals you learn about safety and how to work with them and how to read them. If your area is remote and it is difficult to get holiday etc care then perhaps there would be a job opportunity for someone taking care of different sorts of animals as well as horses
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I always had difficulty in finding anyone if I wanted to go away to rides who could not only look after horses but could also look after and milk my goats, milk my house cow, deal with my calves etc.
Many people with horses also have other farm type animals so knowledge of sheep, poultry and anything else would provide a better service for them. We used to move into a farm to baby sit a Charolais herd when the owner went away. It provided work and income.
You have to learn and no one expects a 17yo to do that now but the more experience you can get with other livestock the more opportunities there are.
So I'm still here, why do I do this to myselfI thought you meant the working with horse care and holiday cover, as did many others. Then you say not. But then you say that you thought of this on the back of going away for a couple of weeks yourself, and not being able to get holiday cover for when you are away. So it was for people on holiday?
totally agree about work ethic but this. When I was about 15 i saw all the working pupil jobs in H & H. Those had my name on. Carried on at school. When I had a 2 month wait to join the CS I had to earn a living so took a job with horses. I have never ever hated a job so much. Once I was in the reality of working with horses and the novelty wore off it was very different from that wonderful childhood dream that I liked animals especially horses and wanted to spend all day looking after them.I
IMO if you want to learn quickly working on a good yard that has high standards were you work realistic equine care working hours not only gives you good base skills but also helps you decide if its the career for you.
I certainly can't transport her around as I work (very) full time, but her Dad is retired and has been informed that he canI wonder if, rather than trying to pick up bits of work here and there (which may or may not be easy in your area, and that's assuming clients who aren't awkward about payment etc.), it might be more effective to find a job with some regular hours and wages to help your daughter get into a routine? Perhaps in time she could then get herself started with driving lessons and/or saving for a car. If you're really rurally located it seems like her being able to drive will really help open things up for her over the next few years.
I would not have assumed parental supervision from the initial posts because neither of my parents would have been able to transport me to multiple places, multiple times during the day or week, so that wouldn't have entered my mind that it would be possible. I did get dropped off at the riding school on a Saturday to help out but that's a different scenario (one I count myself lucky to have had).
Hopefully, she’ll manage to get some useful experience and work, sounds a motivated young lady.Does anyone else have any helpful thoughts to offer on pricing for things like poo picking or giving feeds, or is my very sensible, hard-working daughter simply incapable of doing any paid work, no matter how menial, due to her age and "only" having her BHS Stage 1 so far? (She can legally get married and be a mother in sole charge of a living human being at 16, insane though that is). Perhaps leaving school/education early is the problem, there's a long story behind that I can tell you!
Wow, yes indeed. Some people are awful.Hopefully, she’ll manage to get some useful experience and work, sounds a motivated young lady.
Recently and fairly locally, private yard, owner’s adult daughters went off cantering round an adjoining field, leaving a teenage girl poo picking in with a retired pony and small Shetland. These two revved up, wall of death stuff, knocked over the wheelbarrow, which knocked teenager off her feet - all witnessed by a horrified neighbour.
She was ok, Shetland had cut itself on the barrow, and the poor girl then got bawled out by the owner’s daughters - unbelievable, make sure your lass is as protected as she reasonably can be. Horse owners are not necessarily responsible employers, either
That makes a lot more sense. I do understand the complexities of navigating the schools system and how difficult it can be to get any help.So I'm still here, why do I do this to myself. She's nearly 16, planning hopefully to start something when she is 16 and can therefore get insurance as linked up thread. I can think of circumstances where holiday cover would be perfectly OK, eg on shared DIY yards where she could do the donkey work and the owner has a trusted fellow livery "on call" for emergencies. But I would not ever anticipate her being in the position of having sole care for someone's horses and all that potentially entails (this logic makes sense to me, but perhaps only me
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Preferable would be a few regular jobs for people who just need a hand one or two days a week. That makes it much easier all round, she has a routine, and as she and the owners build trust then she can probably just be dropped off (bearing in mind that depending on distance it would be easier to wait in the car for her anyway). I wasn't sure how common that scenario might be, but it sounds like a possible goer.
Academic qualifications are a problem for her right now and a lack of these rules her out of applying for quite a few things. Don't want to go into it really but she's had a really late diagnosis of something that explains so much about why school was such torture for so many years. This does not affect her ability to do the things I've outlined, and getting her Stage 1 - which involved being put on the spot in front of a group to answer questions - was a massive achievement for her. Learning the content was easy, passing that oral exam was the hardest thing she's ever done and she's in no hurry to go through it again.
I've not much enjoyed the contempt dripping from some posts about a child her age not being in full time education and yes, perhaps this makes me defensive. We are where we are and believe me I have been fighting the system for years.
There you go, my life story on a plate. I have to walk the dogs now![]()
This. My initial jobs were not fancy but were regular. I would have died a death if I'd been expected to manage to do bar work or waitressing. Shop work and cleaning were about where my confidence levels were at that time. My first BF did a good time shelf stacking in the late evening when the shops were shut. We both ended up as good wage earners, so a small start can set you up well.I wonder if, rather than trying to pick up bits of work here and there (which may or may not be easy in your area, and that's assuming clients who aren't awkward about payment etc.), it might be more effective to find a job with some regular hours and wages to help your daughter get into a routine? Perhaps in time she could then get herself started with driving lessons and/or saving for a car. If you're really rurally located it seems like her being able to drive will really help open things up for her over the next few years.
I need to be careful how much I share but I have a story in mind from my experience supporting a young person who had, for various reasons, had disrupted school education. She was in her early 20s when I was in contact with her and was at an FE college working up through the levels of animal care qualification. When I stopped being in contact with her, she was in process of picking her choice of unconditional university offers for vet nursing. Undoubtedly things had not been easy, and there will be challenges ahead, but I am smiling now remembering my time with her and knowing she will be starting one of those university courses about now.Yes to so many of those things, once she's at least 16! She's not all about horses at all, in fact I don't think she does necessarily want to work with horses long term. Definitely not on a commercial yard. She's already seen enough and done enough there to know it isn't for her (although never say never, as I said these are not terribly well run places). What she would really like is to train as a vet nurse but there are so many hurdles for her to overcome before that's a reality. Volunteering at a local vets is definitely on her wish list but places are very hard to come by. Local animal shelter currently only taking on volunteers (over 18) to do fundraising.
I must sound really negative. Point is so much thinking has been done and continues to be done.
Not going to lie, he would be there as taxi and in a safeguarding/safety capacity if she was otherwise on her own, just as he often is when she does her own ponies. But I think we've already established many times over that some people think it is OK for a teen to do jobs for people when they're not there and some people don't. And that's fine, all she can do is see what is out there.How experienced with horses is her dad? I ask because my son has ‘worked’ with horses schooling ponies - but in actual fact it was me who was asked to help, with him as jockey.
Amazing (and terrifying) to think that some places have 11 year old kids bringing in and turning outmy friends daughter, who is 17 in November this year, and has just started Equine college comes to our yard to help a few people with poo picking, haying, and topping up water! she doesn't do things like bring in or turn out etc. but everyone pays her £15 a hour and she does as much as she can in that hour for them.
Snap. I lasted a year, learnt an awful lot from basic stud work, showing and hunter care, but quickly realised I was never going to make enough money to have any life, and in the 70's unless you where extremely talented or had money behind you it wasn't a realistic career choice. I think equine colleges are just time filler before most until realise they would be better doing something else, or go on to run a yard badly.totally agree about work ethic but this. When I was about 15 i saw all the working pupil jobs in H & H. Those had my name on. Carried on at school. When I had a 2 month wait to join the CS I had to earn a living so took a job with horses. I have never ever hated a job so much. Once I was in the reality of working with horses and the novelty wore off it was very different from that wonderful childhood dream that I liked animals especially horses and wanted to spend all day looking after them.
I think BM that people comment about not being in education because many of us are in England where the school leaving age is 18 so it is surprising to us.
I don't dispute your logic at all, but having got some info I'm now interested in some of the general points raised in this thread.When I was about 14-16, over 30 years ago, my sister and I ran a "pet sitting service". We stuck an advert in the post office window every school holidays offering to feed cats, rabbits, hamsters etc and to walk dogs (we were walking our own dog anyway). It was all in walking distance from the house and filled our summer holidays. We had no insurance, no qualifications and only experience with our own animals. I would have done horses too if I could have got to them, although my sister is't horsey. It was great, we earned a lot of money and had lots of repeat customers, including the post office owners. We'd call in every day pick up their house keys, collect the dog from their house round the corner, take him out with ours and drop him back. I loved it and pet owners got a great (even if I do say so myself) service cheaply.
Would I employ a local teenager now? Hell no....Not because I don't trust them or don't think they'd be good enough but because times have changed and not necessarily all for the better but we are where we are. Personally, I would be very reluctant to engage anyone under 18 in a contract for services. I would be terrified of getting sued should something go wrong.
My 13 year old niece walks my dog all the time, she's one of his favourite people and she adores him. I never leave home when she's walking the dog at the playing fields round the corner from my house. One phone call and I can be there in 2 minutes. Again this isn't because I don't trust her but because it's not fair to put someone so young in a position of such responsibility. She also comes and mucks out with me and handles Wiggy with my supervision (she's small for her age and rides 13hh ponies in a riding school. As gentle as he is, Wig is a 16.2 maxi cob). I would however never pay a 16 year old not in my own family or my friends' families (basically the ones I know would never sue me) to do either of these things without supervision, which doesn't help as I would need someone who can be there when I can't.