Micropony
Well-Known Member
Doormouse I shed a tear at your post. So sorry you are going through that, and I hope your horse's last day is a happy one.
Wagtail, I am not at all sure what you were hoping to achieve with this thread and can only give you the benefit of the doubt by assuming you failed to realise how upsetting and offensive it would be to many people, for some of whom you will by now surely have realised PTS is very much a current or a very raw issue, and your post has been, shall we say, unhelpful.
Just under two years ago I had my much loved first horse PTS. It was not because he could no longer be ridden, but because it was the humane thing to do for him. However much I know I did the right thing for him, I can't help but wonder whether there might have been someone like you who didn't know all the circumstamces judging my decision and feeling smug and superior. Other people's opinions on those things don't generally matter very much to me, but we're all a lot more sensitive when we are at such a low ebb.
Whilst you have been clear you agrer the question of "love" has scant relevance to quality of care, on this thread you come across to me as smug, superior, extremely judgemental and really very unkind. That's not an impression I have gained from other posts of yours that I have read, so will just assume you are having a very bad day indeed.
Wagtail, I am not at all sure what you were hoping to achieve with this thread and can only give you the benefit of the doubt by assuming you failed to realise how upsetting and offensive it would be to many people, for some of whom you will by now surely have realised PTS is very much a current or a very raw issue, and your post has been, shall we say, unhelpful.
Just under two years ago I had my much loved first horse PTS. It was not because he could no longer be ridden, but because it was the humane thing to do for him. However much I know I did the right thing for him, I can't help but wonder whether there might have been someone like you who didn't know all the circumstamces judging my decision and feeling smug and superior. Other people's opinions on those things don't generally matter very much to me, but we're all a lot more sensitive when we are at such a low ebb.
Whilst you have been clear you agrer the question of "love" has scant relevance to quality of care, on this thread you come across to me as smug, superior, extremely judgemental and really very unkind. That's not an impression I have gained from other posts of yours that I have read, so will just assume you are having a very bad day indeed.
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