Asha
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AE , when things are back to normal get yourself over to RL event team for a few sessions . Even ask them to get on first so they can understand her . You won’t regret it
Depends on your perspective. When ridden by the trainer she looks amazing but he has ridden her with a LOT of pressure which I can't (and don't want to) replicate. He said he can hardly hold her and that I should leave her with a pro and she is not an amateur's horse. But I don't want to! So there we are. My hope that she would come back more rideable has not happened. She is more wired and onward bound than ever. But at least I know it's not my sh1t riding that has meant progress is slow!!
oh blimey AE - not what you wanted at all! Sorry it didn't work out quite as you had hoped.
What are you thinking you will do now? Or will you start a thread for discussions?
AE , when things are back to normal get yourself over to RL event team for a few sessions . Even ask them to get on first so they can understand her . You won’t regret it
I think we sometimes forget that riding "our" horse is as much as having a mental and emotional partnership with them as going through the mechanical processes of getting a horse to go well. Obviously, the professionals can do a good job on most horses but that does not cover the rest of her day. What we do through the daily routine enables us to really tune into them and them to us. She has been through a lot of changes recently so maybe this weird time we are living through will give you the opportunity to reset your relationship with her and move forward in a quiet and trusting way by having time to do different things with her. I know what changed for me with my very opinionated mare was just sitting with her a couple of times a day in a small paddock while I gave her an hour's break from 4 weeks' box rest. From hand grazing I was able to trust her to just eat and not fool around while I sat and read a book (fortunately good weather!). We even got to the stage where she would wander over to ruffle my hair or just stand close soaking up the sun. I would never have imagined the improvement in our relationship that that period achieved. Usually we don't have the time to "just be" with our horses - there may be some good to come out of this miserable time.!!I plan to go back pretty much to what I was doing before - focusing on communication/motivation not physical pressure. I was losing faith in that because we seemed to be taking a long time to improve. But getting feedback that she is 'extremely challenging' convinces me we were on the right track because she wasnt 'extremely challenging ' for me. I am nowhere near good enough to ride challenging horses! I need cooperative ones. Riding her with more pressure/strength has not made her easier to ride and to ride her that way would take a far better rider than I am. So if that was my only option I'd agree that I should sell. But I think I do have another way - so that's my plan and time will tell. As for how she is going- she's clearly much better schooled which is nice. She has muscled up and uses herself correctly. But I dont have her brain anymore. I need to get that back. Interestingly it's only when riding that I feel that disconnect. I hopped off, took off her tack and did some liberty work and she was much more tuned into me and cooperative. With ZERO pressure. Not because she's drilled at liberty (this was only the 2nd time I've ever done it) but because I think she just switches to 'go' mode whenever anyone is on her back but not when I'm on the ground .






Looks good TM! You've inspired my to do a bit of loose jumping with the pony. I'll have a scavenge and see what interesting things I can find for her to pop over - never found anything scary enough for her to think twice about jumping yet! (Stark contrast to the big idiot who still feels the need to snort at poles on the floor for the first 5 mins, maybe the TRT would help
I’m very late to this (reading bits of the forum that no longer apply to me, desperate times!) but that is so unfair lol - remember what a star he was XC schooling and what a total scaredy muppet Jensen was ?
ETA - or actually maybe it was me that was the scaredy muppet? ??
Oh he's brilliant xc. It's sj poles that he has an issue with, the big tit. I've tried all sorts over the years to get him more consistent but....I think it's probably the fact that the move that he doesn't like, even when they're on the floor he just cannot cope with knocking one
Wow, looks gorgeous ! Green envy here. What a nice place to ride!Went on a nice long ride today! Pony hasn’t been ridden all week, but was nice and agreeable today. Good girl!
Look how much our backyard has greened up in the last few weeks! Cheered me up no end after a looong week at work ?View attachment 43049
Quick school for Rooni...
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He’s being awesome at the moment.
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And a quick hack before my (non C19) lurgy has got the better of me today