palo1
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Most of the 'relaxation' training I see is really just training focus on the rider and throughness in the muscles, not actual switched off relaxation. Either that, or "horse is too tired to be switched on " 'relaxation'.
E.g.,
A pro SJer I used to hack with was very keen on training her sharp horse to 'relax' out hacking, i.e., to not spook at everything. Big pats (problematic in their own way) whenever he chewed or yawned or ignored something. But God forbid he dared to take a few strides to break into trot from walk - every transition had to be exact. She wasn't truly training him to switch off: she was training him to switch off to his surroundings, but always be switched on to her aids. Really, horses need the chance to do the opposite sometimes too.
A dressage rider I knew was also big on 'relaxation', i.e., not having tension in the back so horse could move correctly. Did lots of long and low, and horse would drop head, move through back etc everything you want to see. But you couldn't get it to stand and just chill. It had to be doing something, because it knew saddle = work. At first, it couldn't stand still, so she used Parelli style work to make it. Then it couldn't stand without pawing, so R- was used to stop that behaviour too. And, when all the 'bad behaviour' was dealt with, horse's ears still were flicking a hundred times a minute to wait for its next command, and horse would jumpstart at the slightest pressure. Like the SJer, rider didn't consider this a problem, or the opposite of relaxation, because transitions had to be clean. You couldn't give it a genuinely long rein unless it was exhausted from being ridden, or else it would freak out on you. I never once saw that horse's eye soften.
(ETA: and these examples are both outside of competitive settings. At show grounds, 'relaxation' under saddle seems to be horse focusing only on rider set to max settings. No switching off like Western horses.)
For me, genuine relaxation is a soft eye and otherwise relaxed facial muscles. A horse that can look around and appreciate its surroundings without panicking, relying on the rider for emotional support or being focused on when it will receive its next aid. Who doesn't need to always be given things to think about. Who can be startled by something, but then release that tension and move on, rather than trigger stacking.
I'd be interested to hear your experiences of how people, especially professionals, train a horse to actually relax, as I'm yet to see any competitive English rider do so. I've known some happy hackers and some low-level TREC folk work towards this, but that's it.
I am aware of several appoaches - some of which are quite old school (as in not especially 'fashionable') though as @milliepops says there are people 'out there' using TRT and other methods. Back in the 90s much of the training I was getting was influenced by Molly Sivewright (Talland) and Erik Herbermann as well as other people influenced by Pojhadsky. All of those made their training fundamentally dependent on progressive, sympathetic work where the horse relaxing and understanding how to relax for him/herself was the key to quality. I found Bill Dorrance to be great as well in the specifics of the rider enabling a horse to learn how to solve problems of tension for itself though that was a different kind of riding of course. There has been some good work done by natural horseman type trainers which has really got into the wider public consciousness (I don't just mean Monty Roberts and Parelli but more localised trainers that have been on hand for many people to turn to for help) where understanding what relaxation for a horse looked like in groundwork initially was important. I think that is kind of where most thinking riders are at now, especially where there is an aim for the horse to advance it's work. It doesn't always translate or get communicated at a basic level sadly and there are many people for whom the 'goal' is more important than the horse's state of mind. The switched off relaxation of course isn't something you are likely to see at the moment of competition though as we might want our horses to be concentrating as well as really engaging with the environment and activity. Also, horses have their own ideas and judging from last night's thundering of hooves and generally noisy shenanigans outside my bedroom window there are lots of reasons for a horse to be not switched off lol.
When you watch a great many horses that are kind of systematically trained they do demonstrate (ime) considerable relaxation and confidence - the lovely soft eye, long walk, confidence to graze in hand or perform other natural behaviours even whilst at a 'different' place such as a competition venue. I don't mind seeing healthy horses alert, playful and in a very alert state tbh either; it doesn't necessarily signal a kind of tension which I think is concerning. When I have watched our entirely 'natural' hill pony herd they can be incredibly dynamic - for reasons which are often not obvious and exhibit many signs of 'tension' in their natural interactions with each other. When I ride with them or through them sometimes they are very alert, running alongside our horses - potentially demonstrating those signs of 'stress' yet sometimes they literally don't give a stuff and stay grazing, snoozing etc. I don't think we can be entirely certain that we can either totally understand or control a horse's mental state - they are intelligent and emotional animals so that seems like a very limited and unsympathetic approach to me.
Maybe I am very lucky in that just about everyone I know who rides, strives to achieve a relaxed state or to promote relaxation in their horses; in their living arrangements, their confidence with in hand and ridden work. That makes life so much better for us of course too.