splashgirl45
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The programme is now on iPlayer.
Poor Dan. I have no words.![]()
I must be a bit dense as Iām having trouble finding it. What is the documentary called ? Just found it but it wasnāt easy
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The programme is now on iPlayer.
Poor Dan. I have no words.![]()
They could do that. But the āadopt donāt shopā and demonisation of websites like Pets4Homes and the lines across social media about āonly get from rescues, and not irresponsible private sellersā would put people off, especially those looking for their first dog.
And in a lot of corners of the internet that messaging is very loud and very strong and very judgemental.
Also, there are people trying to move stolen dogs along on there, or are unscrupulous breeders.
Not everyone is an experienced dog owner and not everyone has an experienced dog owner to help them find a suitable dog on Pets4Homes etc, even if there are lots of wonderful dogs in need of homes on there.
I just went on to iplayer, put "dog" in the search field and it came straight up. So not too hard.I must be a bit dense as Iām having trouble finding it. What is the documentary called ? Just found it but it wasnāt easy
I am an experienced dog owner and I have helped loads of people acquire dogs and puppies, but sometimes people don't listen and are going to do what they want to do anyway and some people go and get the dog and then ask questions when they have problems later. Just the way of the world, could apply to many areas of life. The main problem I see is that people don't want to wait/aren't patient and/or fold at the first hurdle/get put off too easily and go for the most convenient option. No one wants to hear that this or that type of a dog might not be right for them.
Because the ārescuesā have an excellent social media management system.Its great that youāve helped loads of people but not everyone has someone like you to help them.
Iāve got vegan friends who think the best thing in the world they could ever do is offer a Romanian street dog a home, one of them is a vet.
I agree that foreign imported dogs are a problem, Iām just trying to offer reasons as to why people go down that route. I think people naively think they are doing a good thing.
Because the ārescuesā have an excellent social media management system.
Because love can cure all is the watchword in this decade.
Because nothing just ever dies and saving a life means you are a deeply special person who will ascend to heaven on your due date.
Itās all about self gratification and manipulation. IMO.
Its great that youāve helped loads of people but not everyone has someone like you to help them.
Iāve got vegan friends who think the best thing in the world they could ever do is offer a Romanian street dog a home, one of them is a vet.
I agree that foreign imported dogs are a problem, Iām just trying to offer reasons as to why people go down that route. I think people naively think they are doing a good thing.
How perfect, and thatās why that kind of site was originally set up, finding new homes for all sorts of things people no longer want - so congratulations! Hope your friend and her little dog enjoy years together!A few months ago an elderly lady I know lost her old dog and I was asked to try and find her a new adult small dog. No luck with the rescues, naturally, as she was too old. Went on preloved and immediately found some suitable dogs. Went to see a small dog which needed rehoming as owner was moving in with new partner and couldn't take dog. Took lady to see dog and she took him home with her and is happy with him. Ā£25 well spent.
Because the ārescuesā have an excellent social media management system.
Because love can cure all is the watchword in this decade.
Because nothing just ever dies and saving a life means you are a deeply special person who will ascend to heaven on your due date.
Itās all about self gratification and manipulation. IMO.
Itās not clear whether you think the cause of such brain-out idiocy is being vegan or being a vet.Its great that youāve helped loads of people but not everyone has someone like you to help them.
Iāve got vegan friends who think the best thing in the world they could ever do is offer a Romanian street dog a home, one of them is a vet.
I agree that foreign imported dogs are a problem, Iām just trying to offer reasons as to why people go down that route. I think people naively think they are doing a good thing.
Itās not clear whether you think the cause of such brain-out idiocy is being vegan or being a vet.
Did you actually enlighten them as to the error of their ways?
I just went on to iplayer, put "dog" in the search field and it came straight up. So not too hard.
Thatās interesting, my neighbour has a lovely little dog from the Dog Trust got a few months ago and sheās over 70It was a smaller rescue that turned my friend down , she tried them as Wood Green and Dogs Trust turned her down . The other thing was she had another dog at home so there were very few rescue dogs that say they can live with other dogs.. I also had another dog at home so found the same problem.. the smaller rescues round here seem to have dogs from abroad in them and I wouldnāt consider a foreign rescue.
I do think that rescues are between a rock and a hard place with this kind of thing - it's easy to say that people go the foreign rescue route because UK rescues turn them down, but some of the people I know/hear of getting foreign rescues are not the sort of owners that I think any genuine rescue organisation should be rehoming to frankly.
And as above, if you are a responsible, clued up owner then finding a private re-home or a small rescue who will rehome to you is absolutely possible, even if you would be out of the tickbox criteria that some of the bigger organisations end up having to stick to.
The way I see the rehomes that I have bought over the years is that I am just picking them up before they end up in a rescue (or another unsuitable home). Am I giving people who have made bad decisions a financial get out? Yes probably, but I'm not going to lose any sleep over it. The recent young working-line Kelpie was bought as a puppy by two young women as a birthday present for their mum who is agoraphobic. Obviously this was a terrible idea and he was soon relocated to the home of one of the daughters where she was walking him (at 4 months old) for two hours a day to take the edge off him. Breeder couldn't have him back due to ill health (presumably why he had sold a puppy to such obviously inappropriate owners in the first place), so he was advertised at 5 months.
His story is not that uncommon, and you can find dogs like him advertised for resale fairly easily. If you're not going to go down the carefully selected puppy from known lines route then there are plenty of 'better' options before turning to foreign rescues.
Oh absolutely, sometimes you have to really grit your teeth wrt the people selling and just be objective about the dog. Phoebe, my little ginger terrier, was 7 months old when I got her and in that time had shifted from one tiny house to another and had never been outside, not even to the vets. She was an absolute bag of nerves when I got her - it took her a month to stop stress drooling. But initial training/gentle exposure needs aside she has been a fantastic dog so I can't complain. But yes, her sellers I didn't think particularly kind thoughts about.I used to be incredibly anti Gumtree/Donedeal/Pets4Homes etc etc but it's become one of the least worst options over the years!!!
I think my issue is the sellers rather than buyers, if that makes sense. Although I do have someone at the moment who bought a cross of two high drive breeds off a free ad site (and calls it a rescue) and has now got sadface when told it might not end up being genetically/mentally suitable for what they want to do with it.
Do people include adopting from Ireland in this?