Copperpot
Well-Known Member
It's great that you have that job security and a supportive OH.
What if you didn't though? What if you were single? Or of you and your partner both lost you jobs and you were at risk of losing your home? What if you had kids to feed and couldn't afford the old knackered horse and food on the table at the same time?
A few years ago it was touch and go whether my dad would lose his job. If he had, we'd have lost our house and everything. I would have searched heaven and hell for a way to keep Misty. And if o hadn't found an answer, I would have PTS. Thankfully the worst didn't happen and we kept her until she got colic. I'd always said the day she had to go through an operation would be the day i said goodbye, and so it was.
I don't have kids and that's a factor in my having 2 horses. When I first got horses I did split up with my then partner and to house myself, keep the dogs and horses was a struggle.
Don't get my wrong if they were in pain or had no quality of life I would pts. Luckily OH and I have the same job, both secure and over time in abundance so tbh it's not something I gladly have to think about. But if it came to it, like you I would do anything in power to keep them.