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Not slacking multitasking
Wow, definitely parallel universe.
It’s easy to be a keyboard warrior but perhaps you should take a step back and consider the impact of you and your friends deliberately hanging up to misinterpret, attack an individual because you don’t agree with them.
I queried the scoring as I found it odd which is why I raised it as a debate....if you look back through my comments (and yours originally) there are some decent explanations as to why neither is correct but in the context of a test one could potentially score higher. We then descended into a horse being kicked along = soft, submissive and harmonious.
As for taking the positive comments only, I’ve said I agree with her feedback regarding tension and not just the good parts so not sure how you’ve got that impression.
In fact you are cherry picking...because time and time again you’ve ignored the fact this is an inexperienced horse and the judge saw no fundamental issues...only that what he was showing was promising and he would relax with experience.
Yes, I am upset. It’s easy to be a keyboard warrior but perhaps you should take a step back and consider the impact of you and your friends deliberately hanging up to misinterpret, attack an individual because you don’t agree with them.
Pot, kettle and black. You have deliberately attacked posters for their views when these have not coincided with your opinions. No, I'm not going to multiquote as I just cannot be bothered any longer.
Again, perception, look it up.


Melodra (well named, BTW), nobody has attacked you. Nobody. In fact I'm pretty sure most of us are quite worried about you because your responses are way over the top and quite, yes: melodramatic. You, on the other hand have variously name-called, used rude language, and misquoted, twisted and obdurately ignored all reasonable explanations for something that you purport to misunderstand.
Seriously, have that cup of tea.
Why have I "liked" and even thanked them then. Liar. And you wonder why you have people in tears.
Why have I "liked" and even thanked them then. Liar. And you wonder why you have people in tears.
Goodness, what a melodrama!
For what it's worth, I have a buzzy Welsh/Arab/Appy mare who displays tension in tests. We have gone from having occasional mid 60s tests, paired with plenty of much lower scores when the tension bubbled over. We're now consistently gaining upper 60s and early 70s tests at prelim, and above mid 60s at novice. What has worked for us is slowing everything right down (especially in the trot, using my rising rhythm to dictate her rhythm), allowing her time to balance. In tests now if things get tense, we slow everything down, almost too much, get our focus back, and then pick up the tempo slightly again with better balance. The photos below show the difference this has made (and it didn't come overnight!). I bought the first picture as it made me laugh and knew it would be a good one to look back on to see our progress. There's around 2 years between the two. I know the frustration of having a talented horse but not being able to demonstrate it in competitions, but with patience it does come.
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Really ? In tears over a on line forum? People you don’t know and have never met? It’s supposed to be a bit of fun and if it stops being so don’t do it.Why have I "liked" and even thanked them then. Liar. And you wonder why you have people in tears.
You've done this to more than me though haven't you? Might have thought it was just me had someone else not told me you bullied them off the forum when they were going through a particularly difficult time. Gas lighting now.
I haven't "done" anything other than what everyone does on this forum, reply to posts and express opinions. Discussions on here can be robust at times (this one for instance), do you feel bullied? Because I can honestly say that I don't see anyone bullying you, not me, not anyone.
You wouldn't, but you have done it before.
You're not going to admit to it, but you must know it's true. I do, I know what's in my inbox, so your protestations just make you look like a liar to me. Keep up your front if you so wish, but it's dishonest.
You wouldn't, but you have done it before.
You're not going to admit to it, but you must know it's true. I do, I know what's in my inbox, so your protestations just make you look like a liar to me. Keep up your front if you so wish, but it's dishonest.
Thanks so much for this. Have found so far using the rise really helps with him, he prances about on the spot with too much hand, but I think I probably need to be more proactive about it during a test, when my own nerves probably get in the way as well. She is beautiful.
ExactlyI think you need to give a little insight into who has accused these people of being bullies because you sound like you’re fabricating this as a way to stoke an argument.
You wouldn't, but you have done it before.
You're not going to admit to it, but you must know it's true. I do, I know what's in my inbox, so your protestations just make you look like a liar to me. Keep up your front if you so wish, but it's dishonest.
I have literally no idea what you're on about. If I was of a sensitive nature I would be sitting in front of my computer screen in tears now........but luckily I am a grown up.
Why does it not surprise me you have zero empathy for people you've upset?
Sing, hum, count, talk to yourself (internally) through every movement of the test. Most of all stay focused on riding every step of the test at the tempo you want. I found the tenser she gets, the more unbalanced she gets, and then she gets tenser still.
Ooh does Godwin’s law usually apply after gaslighting?