Why ask for help ???????

okay, just read the thread in Q.

At first, OP was happy to listen to advice given.

But when people jump on the bandwagon and try to act all superior with their 'advice' (which they've just read someone else post) it gets a bit "have you not got your own opinion??"

I know what I mean lol. I think the repetitive advice is what annoyed OP.

It did look rather bitchy from here, but then what do i know?
 
Which trend?????
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I have just read that thread and I agree that most of the comments were constructive criticism.

With regards to this thread, I cannot see anywhere in that particular thread where the poster asks for help, so I can't understand the title of this post...
 
I've PM'd those who have asked.

I wish to state finally, once & for all that it is the apparent motives behind posting this thread that I find objectionable, not the content of the original, & I AM NOT PMing anyone else, as I am off to the SB, & then to bed!!!!!
 
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thread in picture gallery, second page, re horse called Dermot.

Stops the pm chain lol.

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I say it how it is..

why the secrecy anyway??
 
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(Zebedee sneaks back in)

The user in questions feelings?

(Sneaks back out again)

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I think the user would have guessed she was being spoken about, and perhaps she was already upset in the OP, and may want to stick up for herself? She has every right to know about thsi post and reply if she so wishes.

I'm not happy with this as in essence it's almost like talking about someone behind their back, which is just as bad.
 
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I'm not happy with this as in essence it's almost like talking about someone behind their back, which is just as bad.

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(Zebedee is sucked back in kicking & screaming......not)

Thats exactly the point I've been making.
 
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I'm not happy with this as in essence it's almost like talking about someone behind their back, which is just as bad.

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(Zebedee is sucked back in kicking & screaming......not)

Thats exactly the point I've been making.

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*creeps back in watching for missiles*

Thankyou!
 
There are 3 posts actually, all in the Gallery.

I'm also unclear as to why this post, that we are all replying to at the moment, was made. Of course it could have absolutely nothing to do with any recent disagreements.
 
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Of course it could have absolutely nothing to do with any recent disagreements.

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Hmmm, I'm not convinced.
I spent a few minutes last night, doing a bit of a search, as I felt uneasy about this thread, and there does seem to be some quite consistant bad feeling, coming from certain quarters, towards the gallery poster.
 
I also did a little search last night and am now wondering if this behaviour, which sems to be towards certain users fro certain users, constitutes as bullying?
 
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I also did a little search last night and am now wondering if this behaviour, which sems to be towards certain users fro certain users, constitutes as bullying?

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The 'B' word also sprang immediately to my mind...
 
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I also did a little search last night and am now wondering if this behaviour, which sems to be towards certain users fro certain users, constitutes as bullying?

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The 'B' word also sprang immediately to my mind...

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same here. I'm sorry, but again it seems one rule for some, another rule for others. Bullying shouldnt be tolerated, especially on a place like this.
 
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same here. I'm sorry, but again it seems one rule for some, another rule for others. Bullying shouldnt be tolerated, especially on a place like this.

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I have faith in the good people of this forum, and I believe that when more people realise what's happening, it won't be tolerated.
 
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