Hanson
Well-Known Member
i think perhaps in today's society if someone wants something then it's deemed acceptable if they get it, regardless of cost, knowledge, dedication etc. A bit like having the latest technolog-car, phone etc. If you want it get it on credit.
Without sound like a real oldie, when I was young you knew you had to save up for what you wanted and because you wanted it and it took effort to get it, you cherished it and took time to learn about said 'thing'.
I was only allowed to have riding lesson once a week as a kid for a number of reason, but mainly due to the fact my parents weren't horsey and they couldn't afford for me to have a pony.
So when I got my first job, I got my first horse as a sharer, then loaned, the bought one. Whilst taking that journey I attended an evening class run by the resident yard instructor of where the horses were kept. I've still got (and still use for reference) the pony club manual of horsemanship that she made us all buy. I learnt so much from those classes and had a lot of fun in the process. Not sure if this sort of thing is stil available, unless you go to a college?
Without sound like a real oldie, when I was young you knew you had to save up for what you wanted and because you wanted it and it took effort to get it, you cherished it and took time to learn about said 'thing'.
I was only allowed to have riding lesson once a week as a kid for a number of reason, but mainly due to the fact my parents weren't horsey and they couldn't afford for me to have a pony.
So when I got my first job, I got my first horse as a sharer, then loaned, the bought one. Whilst taking that journey I attended an evening class run by the resident yard instructor of where the horses were kept. I've still got (and still use for reference) the pony club manual of horsemanship that she made us all buy. I learnt so much from those classes and had a lot of fun in the process. Not sure if this sort of thing is stil available, unless you go to a college?