Would you walk away .....

[alainax]

If you were any where near me I would love to go riding a few different horses with you. Everything from friesians to warmbloods, welshies to clydesdales. From private homes, RS horses, breed experience days etc. It would be great fun, and really give you a flavour of everything that is out there. Then, begin the search for the one you love

 

[irish_only]

Google - very sad sale. And go and try some other horses. In your situation I would want to buy something that has been in the same home for a minimum of two years, and a full history available. The RS sounds as if they are really not playing ball, and much as you think you have bonded, as others have said, when a rs horse moves to private ownership it can be completely different. They can be worked 2-3 hrs minimum every day, and presumably you wouldn't be doing this. Please think long and hard.

 

[alliwantforchristmas]

many years ago I fell in love with a horse at a riding school, and when we moved to place with barns and land, I offered to buy her - I told the school to name their price. but they wouldn't sell her because she was so wonderful in the school. so I went on to find my pony of a life time, my absolute heart horse, who I had for 20 years and was put to sleep a year last October. now I have found a new horse, who has been with me five weeks, and is already finding a new place in my heart, not that he will ever take the place of my old girl. As luck would have it, I DID get my riding school horse in the end - when she was 28 with a heart murmer and could not longer be used the school contacted me and asked if I wanted to retire her with me - I did, and we had nine sweet years together where I never sat on her back once, but loved her company every day, and she was a companion to my old pony in her retirement years. she was pts October just gone. all these horses were completely different - the RS horse was an arab x, my dream pony was a welsh mountain Sec B and my current lad is an irish cob. Life works in mysterious ways, and there are many horses out there who will find a place in your heart, if you let them. Good luck with whatever you decide, and I hope you enjoy your horse, whoever he or she may be! But enjoy the process, it's stessful enough owning a horse without going through this much grief before you've even got one!

 

[horse-lover]

Absolutely loved your post, what a beautiful story ^

 

[Booboos]

I remember your earlier thread...put the two together and look what comes up:

You said Dougal is a super safe all rounder and well worth more than the asking price but the owner loves her horses so much she is willing to let them go for less money to a good home. Now it turns out she wants more money, they horse is not vaccinated (when was he last wormed? Seen by the dentist? Saddle checked? These are basic welfare checks that should not be neglected) and she won't even speak with you. This last one is doubly dodgy, any caring seller would want to drill potential buyers themselves and in terms of a sale you want answers to your questions from the owner directly, the YO can always claim that she didn't know if you have problems in future.

The horse market has crashed and is flooded with animals. Go ride some nice all rounders, 10 years plus (not a 6yo for a first horse please!) and see how you feel with them. You will waste a few weekends driving up and down the country looking at horses but you won't waste the next 15 years on the wrong horse.

 

[Dougal9]

Now you can all say how right you all were and have a good old gloat ..... I put my letter in to BRAWLINGS FARM, NR CHALFONT ST GILES confirming the sale on Friday and they've (JUDY THE OWNER) just come back to me saying he is not for sale, they've decided to keep him. I have been led a merry dance for the last 6 months by these unscrupulous, nasty, money grabbing shysters - thanks to them my dreams are in tatters. Yes, I have named and shamed them and I don't bloody care .........

 

[amandaco2]

Now you can all say how right you all were and have a good old gloat ..... I put my letter in to BRAWLINGS FARM, NR CHALFONT ST GILES confirming the sale on Friday and they've (JUDY THE OWNER) just come back to me saying he is not for sale, they've decided to keep him. I have been led a merry dance for the last 6 months by these unscrupulous, nasty, money grabbing shysters - thanks to them my dreams are in tatters. Yes, I have named and shamed them and I don't bloody care .........

So sorry op. Please don't give upon the dream though, there are lots of other horses to fall in love with being sold by genuine people, who will be happy to sell to a nice home like yourself.

 

[EQUIDAE]

Please don't give up on your dream. You will find your dream horse one day x

 

[millikins]

Now you can all say how right you all were and have a good old gloat ..... I put my letter in to BRAWLINGS FARM, NR CHALFONT ST GILES confirming the sale on Friday and they've (JUDY THE OWNER) just come back to me saying he is not for sale, they've decided to keep him. I have been led a merry dance for the last 6 months by these unscrupulous, nasty, money grabbing shysters - thanks to them my dreams are in tatters. Yes, I have named and shamed them and I don't bloody care .........

Nobody here will gloat, all the replies were just concerned about you. Try and see it as an opportunity, you've had your time wasted but fortunately not your money. You've learnt to ride on a nice horse and are now ready for another RS, more challenging horses, new stuff to learn whilst you keep looking for a nice horse of your own. Good luck

 

[ycbm]

Now you can all say how right you all were and have a good old gloat ..... I put my letter in to BRAWLINGS FARM, NR CHALFONT ST GILES confirming the sale on Friday and they've (JUDY THE OWNER) just come back to me saying he is not for sale, they've decided to keep him. I have been led a merry dance for the last 6 months by these unscrupulous, nasty, money grabbing shysters - thanks to them my dreams are in tatters. Yes, I have named and shamed them and I don't bloody care .........

I don't think you'll find anyone gloating. I think you've had a lucky escape. Now you can find your real dream horse, and I promise that you'll love it every bit as much as you would have loved Dougal. Can I suggest you ask for a forum name change, it will just be rubbing salt in the wound to post with the one you have now, and we all want to hear about your horse search

 

[C1airey]

Now you can all say how right you all were and have a good old gloat ..... I put my letter in to BRAWLINGS FARM, NR CHALFONT ST GILES confirming the sale on Friday and they've (JUDY THE OWNER) just come back to me saying he is not for sale, they've decided to keep him. I have been led a merry dance for the last 6 months by these unscrupulous, nasty, money grabbing shysters - thanks to them my dreams are in tatters. Yes, I have named and shamed them and I don't bloody care .........

I'm so sorry to hear this OP. As Amanda said, don't give up! I hope you can find a different riding school and continue to build your confidence. The right horse is out there somewhere with a reputable seller. xx

 

[epeters91]

Now you can all say how right you all were and have a good old gloat ..... I put my letter in to BRAWLINGS FARM, NR CHALFONT ST GILES confirming the sale on Friday and they've (JUDY THE OWNER) just come back to me saying he is not for sale, they've decided to keep him. I have been led a merry dance for the last 6 months by these unscrupulous, nasty, money grabbing shysters - thanks to them my dreams are in tatters. Yes, I have named and shamed them and I don't bloody care .........

I am so sorry for you no gloating here I just want to give you a big hug and tell these people off for messing you around! xx

 

[Pink_Lady]

I couldn't read and run ... just wanted to say how sorry I am to hear this outcome. Shame on the owners - despicable behaviour but just remember what goes around comes around.

Please don't give up and keep looking and you will find your special equine partner.

 

[9tails]

Nobody here is gloating that you have lost the potential purchase of Dougal. But I'm not sure where the "money grabbing shysters" comment comes from, they haven't even taken a deposit off you. Eventually you will see that you've had a lucky escape, maybe the current owners don't think he's right for a private home and that is their prerogative. This forum isn't unpleasant, but if you go around accusing us of gloating over your misfortune you will get short shrift.

 

[Dougal9]

money grabbing because they knew that as long as I was told he would be mine I would continue having lessons twice a week at £100 per week to them ..... I even bought him a new bridle/headcollar/and rug ready for when I got him, which they helped to fit !!

 

[ester]

Oh I am sorry Dougal I'm sure no one on here wanted to be 'right' and there certainly won't be any gloating. Clearly not the sort of people you want to be dealing with.

There can still be dreams, just slightly different ones if you still want to go ahead, I am sorry that you have been so badly dealt with.

 

[be positive]

I am sure no one will be gloating, many will have seen something such as this coming but at least you now know where you stand and can move on, there is no point in dwelling on it or letting it ruin your dreams, find another RS to keep your riding progressing and start actively looking for a horse that is going to be your dream, there are loads out there but it may take a while to find the right one, don't give up and do come on here to ask for advice when you feel you need it.

 

[Damnation]

Sent you a PM.

I am so sorry *Hugs*

 

[Orca]

I'm sorry this has happened. Although a lot of people expected this outcome, no-one wanted this to happen to you. There won't be any gloating.

As tough as it is, I'm glad you now have the definitive answer you said you needed in order to look into other horses. There are thousands out there, looking for a good home and among them you are bound to find the one meant for you.

 

[PorkChop]

So sorry to read this update - I am sure no-one will be gloating at all, you did nothing wrong.

At least you know now, re-group and make a list of must and must not have's and keep a look out

 

[Dougal9]

Apologies - didn't mean any offence with the gloat comment, just really really cross at being taken for such a fool. I trusted them and shouldn't have done. I put a call in to my trainer there, she hasn't even got the nerve to call me back - they were all in on it !

 

[ycbm]

http://www.horsemart.co.uk/Buckinghamshire/D/horses-for-sale.php?ads_aid_min=8&ads_aid_max=18

 

[Booboos]

Try to put it all behind you. There are plenty of lovely horses out there...that don't kick! Find a new RS and go view some horses. Spring is a good time to buy a new horse.

 

[Meowy Catkin]

I'm so sorry that it worked out this way. It's a horrible feeling when you realise that you have been strung along.

 

[Orca]

http://www.horsemart.co.uk/Buckinghamshire/D/horses-for-sale.php?ads_aid_min=8&ads_aid_max=18

Wow! You can get a lot of horse for your money at the moment, OP. There are a few there I wouldn't say no to ��.

 

[ester]

Can't we start hho shopping yet?

 

[ycbm]

http://www.dragondriving.co.uk/horseforsale-82838.html

 

[ester]

Oh dear, I like this chap!
http://www.preloved.co.uk/adverts/s...ice=2000&maximumPrice=3000&distance=50&page=3

 

[alliwantforchristmas]

I'm so sorry it worked out for you like this. I know that you must feel very disappointed now that you won't be having Dougal, and let down by people that you trusted - including your instructor ... awful way to behave! You'll probably need a bit of time to re-group your energies and decide on your priorities. It is scary looking for a first horse, and it's a big security blanket to let go of, the thought of buying one you already know well and get on with. But I am sure the perfect horse is out there for you, and perhaps see this as an opportunity to broaden your horizons - find another instructor, try out a few different horses at a new school and then take your time having a look around to see what is available. As one door closes, another one often opens ... good luck!

 

[ycbm]

Oh dear, I like this chap!
http://www.preloved.co.uk/adverts/s...ice=2000&maximumPrice=3000&distance=50&page=3

Lovely. Smashing kind face! MW not HW, like him a lot