Would you walk away .....

[ester]

Yes I would have said MW too.
Dougal do also be aware that some of us might not be a million miles from you if you do want any assistance, especially if things might now be a bit awkward with your instructor.

and I guess the one good thing is that you did grab the bull by the horns and make a point of sorting it out rather than it going on any longer, so at least knowing now you aren't still assuming it will all go ahead in March.

 

[Tnavas]

Sorry to hear everything fell through - chin up and start looking for the next horse of your dreams - he will be there.

 

[ester]

Tnavas sometimes you really should read the whole thread...

 

[JFTDWS]

Now you can all say how right you all were and have a good old gloat ..... I put my letter in to BRAWLINGS FARM, NR CHALFONT ST GILES confirming the sale on Friday and they've (JUDY THE OWNER) just come back to me saying he is not for sale, they've decided to keep him. I have been led a merry dance for the last 6 months by these unscrupulous, nasty, money grabbing shysters - thanks to them my dreams are in tatters. Yes, I have named and shamed them and I don't bloody care .........

No gloating, just commiserations

 

[Damnation]

OP has a good budget and lots of time. I've sent her some links so some I think are what she is looking for, hopefully good can come of all this.

 

[Tnavas]

Tnavas sometimes you really should read the whole thread...

And sometimes you should be a little less quick to bitch!

 

[NiceNeverNaughty]

that is such a horrid way to be treated On the upside, you are surely now due to have something really nice happen

 

[JFTDWS]

Yes I would have said MW too.
Dougal do also be aware that some of us might not be a million miles from you if you do want any assistance, especially if things might now be a bit awkward with your instructor.

and I guess the one good thing is that you did grab the bull by the horns and make a point of sorting it out rather than it going on any longer, so at least knowing now you aren't still assuming it will all go ahead in March.

If you find yourself looking at anything in Essex in the next month or so, I am happy to offer a second opinion.

 

[Damnation]

Bloody hell, I forgot how quickly this place can turn into a playground.

 

[ester]

And sometimes you should be a little less quick to bitch!

I was only giving instructions, sorry but it drives me mad when people don't and then post something totally inappropriate! You only had to read the last post to see something had occurred. If you can't even bother to do that why bother typing a reply.

Damnation not intentional promise!

 

[Pippity]

I'm so sorry, OP. I had my heart set on buying the RS horse who'd restored my confidence but couldn't afford her at the time. After a year of sharing another horse, I can look back and honestly say that she wouldn't have been the right horse for me at all.

Best of luck in finding the one for you.

 

[claracanter]

Have been following this thread and I'm so sorry OP. At least you took control of the situation and got the truth, now you won't be wasting time till March and can crack on with finding yourself a horse to love.
P.S. I am always very superstitious when buying a new horse and I don't buy anything for it until it has passed the vetting, but I am sure the headlock and bits you have got will fit your new horse or you can always sell them on and get something different instead.

 

[Tyssandi]

Oh Dougal9 how can they do it?? what a bloody cow. I hope those buying Brawlings ( you know who ) screw her like she screwed you.

Never really been up there since taking someone for their stage 2 and don't know of her personally. How the hell can she keep him when the place school has been brought out.

Trainer should be ashamed ...................I know two trainers it wont be that is for sure................... that said. I know Dougal was your boy, they have killed your dreams.

I hope things change course for you and get better.

 

[Tyssandi]

Lovely. Smashing kind face! MW not HW, like him a lot

Yes but quite far to drive, I googled it from mine when looking for a youngsters at that place

 

[Tyssandi]

Also these girls have many a horses for sale https://www.facebook.com/StephidyasonES/

 

[Dougal9]

Also these girls have many a horses for sale https://www.facebook.com/StephidyasonES/

Thanks have sent them a message. By the way - my instructor/yard manager was in on it ...

 

[Dougal9]

Yes I would have said MW too.
Dougal do also be aware that some of us might not be a million miles from you if you do want any assistance, especially if things might now be a bit awkward with your instructor.

and I guess the one good thing is that you did grab the bull by the horns and make a point of sorting it out rather than it going on any longer, so at least knowing now you aren't still assuming it will all go ahead in March.

I am not going back to the rs - they won't get any more money out of me !!

 

[ester]

Absolutely, I just wasn't sure if instructor was a freelancer, or, as you confirm - in on it .

 

[ester]

Also if shopping always google the phone number to see if they are a dealer masquarading as a private seller and forums/facebook groups are a wealth of info on some dealers. We aren't allowed to discuss them on here but you can always ask for PMs

 

[alainax]

Now you can all say how right you all were and have a good old gloat ..... I put my letter in to BRAWLINGS FARM, NR CHALFONT ST GILES confirming the sale on Friday and they've (JUDY THE OWNER) just come back to me saying he is not for sale, they've decided to keep him. I have been led a merry dance for the last 6 months by these unscrupulous, nasty, money grabbing shysters - thanks to them my dreams are in tatters. Yes, I have named and shamed them and I don't bloody care .........

Your upset is completely understandable,however - please grab the new opportunity in front of you with 2 hands! You are now wiser to sellers like this, and can begin the search for your dream horse! Every cloud has a silver lining... whats fur ye will no go by ye... (don't make me continue )

 

[SO1]

I had guessed it was Brawling from your posts.

I expect both the owner and staff members who have not been truthful have been going through a difficult time due to the future loss of their jobs and that they are trying to get as much money as possible before they become unemployed! I knew that they had lost a lot of the land they rented as it was being sold and were downsizing the riding school but did not know they are closing the riding school altogether. I think sometimes the stress during difficult times leads people to act in a way that they would not normally act.

Good luck in find a new horse, if you are on facebook then there are groups such as Everything Equine! Herts,Beds and bucks, Cambs And the rest of the world!! and Hertfordshire horse riders which may have local horses up for sale which have been in private homes rather than just dealers.

I do feel sorry for you and for Dougal too as sounds like he has missed out on a great home.

Now you can all say how right you all were and have a good old gloat ..... I put my letter in to BRAWLINGS FARM, NR CHALFONT ST GILES confirming the sale on Friday and they've (JUDY THE OWNER) just come back to me saying he is not for sale, they've decided to keep him. I have been led a merry dance for the last 6 months by these unscrupulous, nasty, money grabbing shysters - thanks to them my dreams are in tatters. Yes, I have named and shamed them and I don't bloody care .........

 

[Crazy_cat_lady]

So sorry op, should have read the full thread before posting so had typed out a massive essay of the pros and cons from the viewpoint of someone with an ex rs horse.

I hope you find a lovely horse to enjoy soon

 

[Goldenstar]

Find a new riding school and keep looking .
I really sorry and for the horse because from all your posts it sounds like he would have had a great home .
Good luck with the search .

 

[madlady]

OP I'm angry for you at the shameful way you have been treated. To string you along like that is really not on!

Time to re-group though and find yourself a horse - don't be too disheartened there are more than enough fabulous horses out there looking for forever homes who will be perfect for you so please don't give up!

 

[fatpiggy]

Oh dear, poor OP but I think when you look back in a few months time, you will realise you have had something of a lucky escape and are actually the winner. The school has lost your money twice over and the instructor too plus the horse world is small and tight so the sorry tale will be around the local area 3 times before they can blink. I bought my mare from the RS where I was working p/t and as soon as they knew I was seriously interested in her, she was taken off the lesson booking list. In return I paid for her B&B while I made my mind up which was about 3 weeks. The YO also sold her to me for £600 less than the open market price because she knew horsey would have a lovely home with me. Other people have commented on how an ex-RS school can change dramatically once they go private and I can confirm this from seeing how some of the others on the yard were sold and then had problems. Mine was a loon anyway and not many people rode her in the school, plus they had only had her for a few months. As it turned out she was very much a one-person horse and I don't think would have ever settled as a lesson horse. She needed stability and routine to flourish. Going by what you have said about the YO I wouldn't have put it past them to still be using Dougal in the school while your back was turned - you wouldn't have been the first owner to discover this!

Get shopping and you will find what you are looking for out there. I wasn't actually looking to buy but as soon as I met my girl I fell for her entirely, and that was before I even rode her!

 

[Luci07]

Just wanted to say sorry you have been missed around and are so upset. Your nice nature was taken advantage of but that is now behind you.

Plenty of people on here who can help when you are looking but here is some other things to do

1. Dodger dealers has been mentioned - do log on and check dealers
2. When looking up adverts, google the names and phone numbers used.
3. Remember the rule. Go once, video, GO BACK WITH A PRO second time round,
4. When vetting, make sure it is not the dealers/buyers vet

A good dealer is an excellent place to go because you have the opportunity to ride several horses at once and get a better feel.

So, don't be down hearted. You now have money in hand, yard in place and the opportunity to properly search for your own horse. Enjoy and we expect wonderful pictures shortly..

 

[AdorableAlice]

Coloured cob over there..............fun type worth a look at.

There is a reason for everything OP, you have had a lucky escape, move on and it will be a lucky horse to be cared for and loved by you.

 

[ihatework]

OP I could put you in touch with an instructor in that general area who is good, genuine, links with RC types and runs a livery yard. They could easily help you source a suitable horse and then help you with lessons/livery as required.

 

[ILuvCowparsely]

I know entire but can be gelded what about this chap not far from you

http://www.preloved.co.uk/adverts/s...e+for+sale&sectionId=2188&location=hp9&page=2
head shaker but.........

http://www.preloved.co.uk/adverts/s...e+for+sale&sectionId=2188&location=hp9&page=2

or this one again only 8 miles away

http://www.preloved.co.uk/adverts/s...e+for+sale&sectionId=2188&location=hp9&page=2

http://www.preloved.co.uk/adverts/s...e+for+sale&sectionId=2188&location=hp9&page=3

 

[KrujaaLass]

Don't think the op needs a head shaker or stallion trotter