lula
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Cedars, Im so sorry you and Chloe are having such a tough time. I have no idea where abouts you live but are you confident that your vets are doing the right thing, by this I mean do they have specialist knowledge or are they taking advice. The reason I ask is that, if she were mine, I would speak very frankly to my vet (I am lucky that I have an excellent practise and a senior vet who I trust implicitly to either know the answer, have the infrastructure to find out and if necessary tell me straight what is in the dogs best interest) and if they believe that even with all the testing and variations of treatment, that there is no guarantee of long term improvement, I would PTS sooner rather than later. I think its important to consider her quality of life now, as well as what may be, I believe that dogs, like horses, think of the here and now and dont see the bigger picture as we do. If she can be kept pain free and comfortable whilst treatment is ongoing then by all means, i would try anything that would help, but and this is a big but, if i thought she was truly miserable i would call it a day. A bit harsh, maybe, but I, like you appear to be saying in your OP, cant bear to see my dogs unhappy. Last Xmas time I lost my old ESS, she was nearly 14 but between Boxing Day and NYE she lost the use of one of her back legs and could no longer take herself outside. I was able to carry her out to the garden but she was so unhappy, you could see it in her eyes. It was an aggressive bone cancer, terminal but manageable for the short term. I chose to have her PTS so that she lost no dignity and suffered no pain. This is my personal opinion, please do not think I am judging anyone, Im not but if you do decide to call it a day no one will think any the less of you, quite the opposite I feel. Hugs x
my old lab too had bone cancer in his back hip joint. it came on in a matter of months and his back left hip and leg wasted away drastically. he also started having more and more trouble walking. The vet gave us morphine and the poor thing lived in a stoned daze for a few weeks but at least he didnt seem to be in pain until but the day he came in from the garden, tripped over the doorstep fell over and couldnt get up. Right there and then i carried him to the car in a blanket, took him to the vet and had him pts.
it broke my heart, id had him over 10 years. cancer's a horrible thing.
OP, i think you will know when the time is right, Cloe will tell you and you will hear her.. keep persevering with the steriods for the meantime.
goodluck x