Ahrena
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Oh I do remember how much you hated him at first, and how often you put him up for sale and took the ad down a few hours later you never know whatās round the corner, he may well surprise you yet!
Oh I do remember how much you hated him at first, and how often you put him up for sale and took the ad down a few hours later you never know whatās round the corner, he may well surprise you yet!
Oh I was terrified of him. I canāt tell you how much I cried that first year! And I wasnāt good enough to know how to deal with him. I think I would do things differently now. I fought fire with fire at the time. Boggle is such a complex mix of confident but anxious, testing but genuine and I was too reactive with how I dealt with him. I learned a lot! We got there though, heās never let me down when it mattered and in the end I learned when to say ādonāt be an utter idiot- get on with itā and when to say āitās alright, youāre fine- there there ā.I remember the hole in the hoof (the photos will be on here somewhere) but I never think of you as being out of your depth in those early days like you describe - you certainly never came across like you were scared.
He's such a fabulous little horse and I've always loved that massive personality. Wasn't he scrawny when he first arrived?!!
How do you still look glamorous, even when you're coming out the side door?!
I enjoy hearing about Boggle and I never knew you suffered from nerves it just seemed you were so at ease with him. You love him so much and just being with him is enough for you. It reminds me of how I felt about Homey. He is your horse of a lifetime and you have an amazing bond. I hope you have many many more years together and that his health stabilises and you can have some peace with him again. Life seems so unfair sometimes.
You and Boggle are the perfect partnership. He is such an intelligent expressive looking horse. I so want everything to turn out well for you two.Definitely not for that first year but after that I never felt scared with him again. It is, I know youād have done anything to keep Homey too.
You picked us up for our first show! Where did those easy, fun times go where we were in our 20's mucking around with ponies without a care in the world.
Such a lovely bittersweet story to read. I look back on my time with my two TBs and wish if only I had known more, had more confidence, done some things differently.
If only - the two saddest words in the English language - and best avoided.
Itās the two horse drama when you take one away to do stuff that Iām not sure I can be arsed withYesss get them home, nothing like snugs in your pjs before bed!!
Catching up on this. Dusty looks super lovely and fun to have a little project that is so relaxed. Enjoy him.
It is lovely to have them close to home however I second the 2 horse drama which is a pain also if you need help with them if you are away is that easy to arrange? only speaking from experience.
Speedy healing vibes for Boggle
OH my it is soooooooo gorgeous!!Yep Iāve got help covered! Iām thinking I can mostly keep each one in eyesight and if Dusty is good maybe ride and lead. One stall overlooks the outdoor arena. Obviously I wouldnāt box Dusty out anywhere but heās ages away from any adventures anyway. It would only be a month so not worth trying to train them out of it.
Conscious itās another move for Bog/Dusty but itās extremely quiet and chilled there and theyād travel there together, so I think it wouldnāt be too much drama.
Barn is beautiful and have to admit with everything with Bog, spending tons of time with him outside my door is appealing.
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OH my it is soooooooo gorgeous!!
Sounds like you have it pretty well figured out
I solved this by buying a Shetlandā¦.Itās the two horse drama when you take one away to do stuff that Iām not sure I can be arsed with
I solved this by buying a Shetlandā¦.
Or a pig!I solved this by buying a Shetlandā¦.
Borrow the pig to keep the other one company!Itās the two horse drama when you take one away to do stuff that Iām not sure I can be arsed with
great minds...Or a pig!
I've always coped with 2 I just bring them both in and they get hay and they are fine left alone then, I can't leave 1 in the field they just go nuts galloping and screaming.Itās the two horse drama when you take one away to do stuff that Iām not sure I can be arsed with