snopuma
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So 3 years and 9months ago I bought an ex-racehorse, she was sold to me as being a bit too boring for the owner because she's was so good and she had supposedly retrained her, I am pretty convinced now that when I tried her she was doped I have had one successful ride in walk trot and canter on her and that was the day I brought her home, the second ride she bronced in the school and bolted a first for me all other previous horses have had plenty to say so I would say I am accomplished after 37 years of horses but I have never felt like I did that day, I got some professional help after 6 months of avoiding the canter with her and to be fair barely riding her, the professional can ride her, yep he can he can really ride he sits to all the rearing, broncing and bucking. Good for him. He can't understand what my problem is. She has been to 2 dressage shows she won both her classes one with him and one with me (after he had warmed up - she bronced in the warm up)
This time last year she put me on the floor in great style, I lay there unable to move, after 2 hours on the floor I went off in the ambulance, suspected broken pelvis, luckily after x-rays I hadn't broken anything, amazing! they packed me of home at 3am and said you will feel like you've been hit by a train, they weren't kidding, for the next three days it took me between 4-7hours to get out of bed, I have never known pain like it and I have broken a few things in my time, but this was like I had broken my back and pelvis, for the next 3 weeks I sat up to sleep in bed it was just easier to get up, m boss was a compete arS*h*le and throughout my recover made things as awkward for me as possible, after 3 months despite the fact that that I had returned to work after 3 weeks she made me redundant. So I still have my mare, and I have ridden her through June-October last year not religiously and did hack her 6 times, which is amazing but then some shetlands looked at her on the last hack and I got off and walked home. Then she got an abscess and was off work and then winter came (she hates winter).
So my predicament is that despite the fact that I love this little madam and she has her good points, she's great in the stable, loves a groom etc... she is the worst horse to lead in from the field, I have tried every gadget and she has no respect, she launches through the air spins round, canters next to you virtually on the spot rears up, she used to put the fear of God into me, she doesn't even respect a chifney I am surprised I have broken her jaw with her carry-on, she has no respect for me at all, now I am not a wus and I give as good as she's gets, I am ashamed to say that I have punched her ignorant face when she has really pushed it with me, not that there was much reaction, in fact little at all, I have tried being overly nice and praising her every good move. Nothing works, she just looks at me like 'Sucker' do my bidding. I have desensitised her with the lunge whip as she was terrified of it, I have never hit her, I just wiggle it on the floor, now she is desensitised she now has decided that she will stop whenever she likes and just look around, and now I am between the rock and the hard place, I have another horse, he is semi retired, currently lame and is a God, he literally has never put a foot wrong, he is twice her size and cut late, I would never put a chifney on him he would never need it, he has always looked after me, I wish I had bought another him. But I am stuck with madam who is beautiful and moves wonderfully, but is trying to kill me in her own way, I would love it if I could speak to her and just set out the contract that I just want to school 3 times and week and hack a couple of times too and go to dressage shows ever 2-3weeks, and for this she will have a clean bed, plenty of nice hay, good food, rugs in abundance, her every medical need met, but I can't and I can't keep doing what I am doing, I had hoped that I could progress with the professional's help but all it has proved is that a professional can ride her, and I can't.
So if anyone has an ideas on maybe hypnotising us both etc.... I would take advise, and NO I can't sell her she will end up in a tin.
This time last year she put me on the floor in great style, I lay there unable to move, after 2 hours on the floor I went off in the ambulance, suspected broken pelvis, luckily after x-rays I hadn't broken anything, amazing! they packed me of home at 3am and said you will feel like you've been hit by a train, they weren't kidding, for the next three days it took me between 4-7hours to get out of bed, I have never known pain like it and I have broken a few things in my time, but this was like I had broken my back and pelvis, for the next 3 weeks I sat up to sleep in bed it was just easier to get up, m boss was a compete arS*h*le and throughout my recover made things as awkward for me as possible, after 3 months despite the fact that that I had returned to work after 3 weeks she made me redundant. So I still have my mare, and I have ridden her through June-October last year not religiously and did hack her 6 times, which is amazing but then some shetlands looked at her on the last hack and I got off and walked home. Then she got an abscess and was off work and then winter came (she hates winter).
So my predicament is that despite the fact that I love this little madam and she has her good points, she's great in the stable, loves a groom etc... she is the worst horse to lead in from the field, I have tried every gadget and she has no respect, she launches through the air spins round, canters next to you virtually on the spot rears up, she used to put the fear of God into me, she doesn't even respect a chifney I am surprised I have broken her jaw with her carry-on, she has no respect for me at all, now I am not a wus and I give as good as she's gets, I am ashamed to say that I have punched her ignorant face when she has really pushed it with me, not that there was much reaction, in fact little at all, I have tried being overly nice and praising her every good move. Nothing works, she just looks at me like 'Sucker' do my bidding. I have desensitised her with the lunge whip as she was terrified of it, I have never hit her, I just wiggle it on the floor, now she is desensitised she now has decided that she will stop whenever she likes and just look around, and now I am between the rock and the hard place, I have another horse, he is semi retired, currently lame and is a God, he literally has never put a foot wrong, he is twice her size and cut late, I would never put a chifney on him he would never need it, he has always looked after me, I wish I had bought another him. But I am stuck with madam who is beautiful and moves wonderfully, but is trying to kill me in her own way, I would love it if I could speak to her and just set out the contract that I just want to school 3 times and week and hack a couple of times too and go to dressage shows ever 2-3weeks, and for this she will have a clean bed, plenty of nice hay, good food, rugs in abundance, her every medical need met, but I can't and I can't keep doing what I am doing, I had hoped that I could progress with the professional's help but all it has proved is that a professional can ride her, and I can't.
So if anyone has an ideas on maybe hypnotising us both etc.... I would take advise, and NO I can't sell her she will end up in a tin.