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Just read it, grovel springs to mind.
Gordon Elliott: 'I'll spend my life paying for indefensible moment of madness' | Horse Racing News | Racing Post
Woe is me.
Just read it, grovel springs to mind.
Gordon Elliott: 'I'll spend my life paying for indefensible moment of madness' | Horse Racing News | Racing Post
Corrected for you.Woe is me. For I have been found out
Yeah, there's a country mile of difference between being ambivalent about death & dead bodies and posing with one. A person to whom it even occurs to pose with the carcass of a just dead animal that was in their care, has a troubling personality - it is not normal behaviour.
Also, it is deeply reminiscent of the sort of posing hunting pics people used to take years ago with a tiger or similar that they had shot. Not even the most hardcore antis generally go as far as suggesting that those in racing deliberately kill the horses in their care....
Racing needs to throw the book at him.
I wouldn’t have thought he should be that desensitised to a dead horse. Presumably he doesn’t see as many as you do sheep? If he does, there’s something very wrong.I'll make an attempt at a tiny defense. I see dead sheep all the time. If someone got a dead sheep and put a hat on it or something, I don't think I'd care much and might find it mildly funny. This trainer appears to be totally desensitised to dead horses and while the behavior and humour is in poor taste, in fairness his attitude could be, and hopefully is, totally different to horses as individuals whilst they are alive.
You do hear of people like some police and medics engaging in humour (between themselves) about terrible events like fires and RTAs, that they couldn't let people hear or they'd be deemed "sick", but they're incredible for actually dealing with them IYSWIM? I'm not making the point very well but I think what I'm saying is that to be the kind of person who can stomach the really hard stuff, maybe a certain amount of insensitivity and a twisted SOH are actually helpful?
It was dumb though.
This is a general thought but there seems to be a lot of horses dying in racing. Be that in training or in races. Does this make trainers less affected by it? It seems to be a very common thing to happen. If there was such a rate in any other equestrian sport there would be outcry. It just seems to wrong that horses give their all, literally, till their heart gives out and they are gone. I guess a sudden death like that is “better” (for lack of a better word) than a horrible neglected end. There is no end of horses to fill their place and that just seems so wrong.
Desensitised maybe, but downright disrespectful is unforgivable.I actually wouldn't say there are more now than ever before but it is seen more courtesy of social media. There isn't such stats in other equine diciplines (except for maybe the Arabs and their endurance racing...) because there isn't the vast numbers of horses in other disciplines.
As to becoming desensitized to death - yes you do become it a little. You don't get used to it but you learn to cope with it better. You learn to whack a smile back on your face and carry on to the end of the day when you can cry in private. Racing still has a tough image to it - rightly or wrongly - and we still have a job to do and other horses to look after.
I am the one who stays with horses on the gallops that have broken or have had a heart attack. I send everyone else home because I know I can deal with what needs done. I can make the phone calls, I can sort the animal. And then I break down after all the necessaries are dealt with. I have never and would never ask anyone else to stay with the horses because I know I can trust myself. And I wouldn't ask one of the youngsters to do it. Nor the jockeys as they will have to deal with it at the racecourse at some point in their careers.
Desensitised maybe, but downright disrespectful is unforgivable.
I've bolded the bit that matters Clodagh.
It doesn't bother me, purely on the face of it, that he sat on a dead horse. After all, there are plenty of people reading this sat on parts of a dead cow. But it does bother me that nobody, even someone who thinks a carcass is just a carcass, would ever think of sitting on it! It demonstrates his basic lack of respect for the animals in his care and to me it indicates clearly that he thinks of them only as tools of his trade.
I am disgusted by the attitude that what he did exposes, but not repelled by the act itself.
I hope that makes sense?
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I have seen a lot of dead people, but I have never ever seen anyone be disrespectful whilst dealing with the dead. You learn to put things you see in a box, but that does not mean you lose respect. I have dealt with people who I have never met, never met their families, and you treat them how you would treat your own family. If anyone I was working with did something like that, they would be literally out the door.I'll make an attempt at a tiny defense. I see dead sheep all the time. If someone got a dead sheep and put a hat on it or something, I don't think I'd care much and might find it mildly funny. This trainer appears to be totally desensitised to dead horses and while the behavior and humour is in poor taste, in fairness his attitude could be, and hopefully is, totally different to horses as individuals whilst they are alive.
You do hear of people like some police and medics engaging in humour (between themselves) about terrible events like fires and RTAs, that they couldn't let people hear or they'd be deemed "sick", but they're incredible for actually dealing with them IYSWIM? I'm not making the point very well but I think what I'm saying is that to be the kind of person who can stomach the really hard stuff, maybe a certain amount of insensitivity and a twisted SOH are actually helpful?
It was dumb though.
Yeah, there's a country mile of difference between being ambivalent about death & dead bodies and posing with one. A person to whom it even occurs to pose with the carcass of a just dead animal that was in their care, has a troubling personality - it is not normal behaviour.
Also, it is deeply reminiscent of the sort of posing hunting pics people used to take years ago with a tiger or similar that they had shot. Not even the most hardcore antis generally go as far as suggesting that those in racing deliberately kill the horses in their care....
Racing needs to throw the book at him.
Dear goodness, if true and correctly identified on the racing forum I linked to above, on Twitter there is now a video of an amateur jockey sitting and bouncing on a dead horse on the gallops!
That photo is horrendous, what he did was inexcusable. I have just read a very thought provoking post by Phoebe Buckley on Facebook about trials by social media and the harm it can do. He did a very very stupid thing and no amount of apologies will make up for it.
I'm too scared to ask if you have a link ...
What so because people cannot live being caught out for there actions and who they really are, we are supposed to go " oh never mind you carry on. Do what you like"