ihatework
Well-Known Member
At the end of the day you are who you are and horses are an inherently time consuming and very selfish hobby/job.
Male or female you need a very understanding and supportive partner (or one who is so engrossed in their own hobbies that they don't mind!)
If they love you enough they will be that person BUT it also goes two ways and that means compromise on your side too - you (if you want to make the relationship work) will need to make extra effort to make time for him too.
A lot of blokes don't understand just how all consuming the horses are and they like the sound of it but can't cope with the reality!
Male or female you need a very understanding and supportive partner (or one who is so engrossed in their own hobbies that they don't mind!)
If they love you enough they will be that person BUT it also goes two ways and that means compromise on your side too - you (if you want to make the relationship work) will need to make extra effort to make time for him too.
A lot of blokes don't understand just how all consuming the horses are and they like the sound of it but can't cope with the reality!