merlo89
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So as AA asks, what would you deem acceptable in charges?
Personally, £20 a week for 3 days, half of the cost of shoes and doing the yard duties if owner can't make it even if it wasn't my set day.
So as AA asks, what would you deem acceptable in charges?
Personally, £20 a week for 3 days, half of the cost of shoes and doing the yard duties if owner can't make it even if it wasn't my set day.
Personally, £20 a week for 3 days, half of the cost of shoes and doing the yard duties if owner can't make it even if it wasn't my set day.
Why not put an advert out offering that then? There's sure to be some people out there who aren't skint themselves, Ester says she's had no trouble finding the type of share circumstances she wants. It's interesting you think people have been rude and presumptious. I actually think you posting wanting a share for peanuts was rude and presumptious.
Personally, £20 a week for 3 days, half of the cost of shoes and doing the yard duties if owner can't make it even if it wasn't my set day.
people who talk about the cost of livery as though it somehow equates to the cost of keeping a horse are deluded. Very few people actually add up the real costs. QUOTE]
I understand that livery is probably about 5% of the costs, however for the price I would be paying to loan, I could rent a stable and field on a yard with an arena and have bedding and hay for free.
I fully understand costs
I still struggle to get my head round paying to help someone out to ride their horse for them and do their stable chores so they don't have to. I never charged my sharer as she was helping me out too. I have never paid to ride perfectly nice horses for the many years I didn't have my own, and when I did when I was only seeing him weekends and I am a much better rider than I was then.
Personally, £20 a week for 3 days, half of the cost of shoes and doing the yard duties if owner can't make it even if it wasn't my set day.
What cracks me up is that the same people who were telling me a few days ago that I need to pay someone to ride my horse, or offer a share for free, are now saying that £30 to £40 a week is a perfectly reasonable contribution. I am asking around half of that and it's negotiable for the right person.
Anyway, back to the point, About 15 years ago I was paying £60 a month for 3 days on a happy hacker who was limited by arthritis and COPD, and that was on the cheap side compared to what some people were charging.
I'm motivated more by time than money to have a sharer. It does help me out and give me a day off and I'd have to pay for my horse regardless On the other hand most sharers want a weekend day so I have to give up riding, and I also have to fit around them to a certain extent as well as paying all the bills, so why shouldn't I ask for a contribution?
As others have said, I'm not looking for someone to improve my horse. I just want someone who can't have their own for whatever reason and would like to exercise and care for mine competently a couple of days a week instead and give me a small contribution towards costs.
Strange how this forum works ...
I have all the time in the world to give, mornings evenings, just not weekends!
I just do not understand how some people would expect me to pay £40+ to ride and do the stable duties (Muck out, haynets and feeds), when actually that's what you pay people to do!
Strange how this forum works ...
I have all the time in the world to give, mornings evenings, just not weekends!
I just do not understand how some people would expect me to pay £40+ to ride and do the stable duties (Muck out, haynets and feeds), when actually that's what you pay people to do!
... but also strange that you do not appreciate that we all pay for the pleasure of doing our own horses too, and yes for the vast majority of us the pleasure is also in the stable duties which leads to yard time chatting with our friends and time grooming our horses which is a way of life, not just the riding as we have a real bond with our horses.
Many of us do not need to pay somebody else to do the stable work as we're happy to do it ourselves.
I personally choose to have one of mine on DIY , I can afford part or full livery but I don't want it because I want the relationship. I've had part & full in the past but the bond with the horse is simply not the same. Even with my one that is on full grass livery, our relationship has changed.
There are no "chores" in my eyes, these are all privileges that I'm paying for and if I did share then I'd expect somebody else to see these as privileges to and do the same, and indeed they have done when I've had sharers in the past.
Others may well see it a different way which is absolutely fine, there is no right or wrong answer but if your asking why so many people are asking £30-40 a week for a share what I've explained is potentially why!
What cracks me up is that the same people who were telling me a few days ago that I need to pay someone to ride my horse, or offer a share for free, are now saying that £30 to £40 a week is a perfectly reasonable contribution. I am asking around half of that and it's negotiable for the right person.
Anyway, back to the point, About 15 years ago I was paying £60 a month for 3 days on a happy hacker who was limited by arthritis and COPD, and that was on the cheap side compared to what some people were charging.
I'm motivated more by time than money to have a sharer. It does help me out and give me a day off and I'd have to pay for my horse regardless On the other hand most sharers want a weekend day so I have to give up riding, and I also have to fit around them to a certain extent as well as paying all the bills, so why shouldn't I ask for a contribution?
As others have said, I'm not looking for someone to improve my horse. I just want someone who can't have their own for whatever reason and would like to exercise and care for mine competently a couple of days a week instead and give me a small contribution towards costs.
What cracks me up is that the same people who were telling me a few days ago that I need to pay someone to ride my horse, or offer a share for free, are now saying that £30 to £40 a week is a perfectly reasonable contribution. I am asking around half of that and it's negotiable for the right person.
Anyway, back to the point, About 15 years ago I was paying £60 a month for 3 days on a happy hacker who was limited by arthritis and COPD, and that was on the cheap side compared to what some people were charging.
I'm motivated more by time than money to have a sharer. It does help me out and give me a day off and I'd have to pay for my horse regardless On the other hand most sharers want a weekend day so I have to give up riding, and I also have to fit around them to a certain extent as well as paying all the bills, so why shouldn't I ask for a contribution?
As others have said, I'm not looking for someone to improve my horse. I just want someone who can't have their own for whatever reason and would like to exercise and care for mine competently a couple of days a week instead and give me a small contribution towards costs.
Why can I only read the first page of this post?
Every time I try to load the next page it jumps back to page 1 :/
Well, firstly I'd be staggered if you can find a yard that does acceptable turnout AND a stable AND hay AND bedding for forty pounds a week