Queenbee
Well-Known Member
This thread (im sorry op) just reads to me like a car crash. I'm all for 'live and let live' and also all for a no pressure approach where folks set their horses up to succeed etc, but some very serious alarm bells are sounding to me. Personally I've always approach a horse with the attitude that if I die, or for whatever reason should have to part with my horses they should have a fully rounded education so they can move to a new home and be ok. This means, for example, that if I want to keep my horse unclipped, un stabled, and bitless, he would still as part of his education learn how to behave when clipped, learn to stable and ride in a bit, same goes for commands, even if I wanted to waggle sticks and fingers at my horse, it would still learn traditional commands, so that any stranger would be able to safely be around my horse whatever the circumstances. I certainly never would allow my horse to be the boss of me!! That is just so incredibly dangerous and totally unfair on the horse. Horses behave far better when they know what is expected of them, have set rules and boundaries and someone to look to for guidance, you put this role in the hands of the horse and you've got a serious problem waiting to happen in my opinion. I would not trust such a horse around my children, no matter how foot perfect he seems to be, I would never advocate children waving sticks around my horse, I certainly wouldn't want to take on such a horse and try to unpick its brain for it.
It's horses like these that while the owner crows about how wonderfully behaved they are - other people look on and thing what terrible manners the horse possesses. :/
It's horses like these that while the owner crows about how wonderfully behaved they are - other people look on and thing what terrible manners the horse possesses. :/