ScampiBigMan
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Haha I feel HHO is getting all philosophical this week!
I have a group of people around me, who I do trust, saying we're ready to event, Skylla is capable, I'm capable and yet when it's come to the crunch we haven't managed it. I am by nature a worrier and always blame myself for not being good enough and ruining my horse, this is now 'backed up' by both events lol, hence having a big ol' wobble.
We have done unaff hunter trials/ arena eventing/ farm rides (have a fun ride booked in), we've done the homework and yet I seem to still be 'missing' something. Now likely, it is just experience and I know from previous experience (none eventing experience) with horses you always need a hefty dose of luck on your side too.
This year has been made tricker with everything being cancelled and then re-opening so I've had to move fast to enter things just to try and get a run, ideally I would have done a couple of unaff ODE's first but there weren't any and now they're popping up after I've committed (and entered) BE ones. The most local one that I could have done was at Chomondley, that ScampiBigMan did, but actually on walking the BE I knew it would be big and bold track for Skylla so not an inviting low key one for her so didn't enter.
I think this in part might be my issue, I am not as experienced eventing so sought out lots of training, I then worked hard to do as I'm told, when actually in a couple of instances I really should have gone off my own instinct and rode slightly differently to a fence (letting her take a slightly longer one as its in her comfort zone than making her wait). However, this is how we learn and you guys unfortunately have to then listen to my whining when things don't go well .
By the same token it was the Tuffy clinic I did last year that actually got us jumping together as a partnership so I know her instruction should help us loads even in a group environment.
Good to hear about Llany! Frickley on reflection was quite buzzy for Skylla and the first XC fence took her by surprise so she was on the back foot. Skipton should have suited her perfectly but for bit issues and then deciding to roll off at the first fence . Knowing the events and courses does help so I guess the more I go out and know what the courses are like the better I will be at picking the best events to take her to.
Agree with you, I had done many years unaff /RC everything, some drag hunting, few farm /fun rides and BS SJ up to 1.3m but took a me a couple of years going around BE events to figure out for myself how to approach this particular sport. Couldn't afford to event when younger and never been my 'circle' of horse people that do BE - so had to learn for myself.
Current two horses have benefitted from the experience I gained 10 years ago with others as have (mostly...(!)) figured out how to tackle three phases so they are fun, keep improving and can reproduce at an event (mostly...(!)) My aim is for us all to enjoy the day out and feel we are progressing every time - anything else is a bonus(!)
Remember you being really positive after the last Tuffy clinic so makes sense to get her input again. We'll likely go back to Caroline (Moore) again for similar reasons as she definitely helped move us on again and gave me more tools for the box (and I can't get Blyth Tait any more...!)
I use Radfords (Llany) alot for hiring /Di lessons /unaff /BD as well as the BE because of the atm and people, the horses like it there (and so do we). So certainly hope you and Skylla find it relaxing too and helps you reproduce what you have both done many times before.