Littlelegs
Well-Known Member
Excellent description kerilli, the riding light myth irritates me too. The laws of gravity dictate you cannot feel lighter than you actually are, only heavier.
And as far as curves, or lack of go, that has no effect on how much of a 'real woman' you are, or how sexy you are. I'm tall, & always been thin. I'm also straight up & down, with little in the way of boobs, hips, bum etc. And I'm every bit as sexy & womanly as my best mate, who has a figure like Jessica rabbit. At times I have been super thin, just because that's how my body is. And that doesn't effect how sexy I am, or womanly, because I'm healthy & confident about the way I look. Being thin isn't always down to eating disorders, or mental issues. Some of us are just like that. I've spent most of my life listening to negative comments from other females about my size. Because I eat lots, I have often been on the end of comments about bulimia too. Lots of times I've had comments along the lines of 'I didn't think you ate that much, I assumed you were the type to pick at a lettuce leaf'. To which when younger I would reply 'I am suprised at you too, I thought you sat eating pies all day'. Now I don't really care. I assume rude comments are either from a lack of intelligence & knowledge, or jealousy. Not jealousy of my size as such, but the fact I'm happy & confident about my figure & they aren't, whatever their size. And tbh, while there are times its a nuisance to have to almost constantly eat, I am incredibly lucky that bread, choc, cheese etc aren't something I ever need to limit myself on. I can eat all the foods I love, without watching the quantities. And I think that, more than anything else inspires jealousy.
And as far as curves, or lack of go, that has no effect on how much of a 'real woman' you are, or how sexy you are. I'm tall, & always been thin. I'm also straight up & down, with little in the way of boobs, hips, bum etc. And I'm every bit as sexy & womanly as my best mate, who has a figure like Jessica rabbit. At times I have been super thin, just because that's how my body is. And that doesn't effect how sexy I am, or womanly, because I'm healthy & confident about the way I look. Being thin isn't always down to eating disorders, or mental issues. Some of us are just like that. I've spent most of my life listening to negative comments from other females about my size. Because I eat lots, I have often been on the end of comments about bulimia too. Lots of times I've had comments along the lines of 'I didn't think you ate that much, I assumed you were the type to pick at a lettuce leaf'. To which when younger I would reply 'I am suprised at you too, I thought you sat eating pies all day'. Now I don't really care. I assume rude comments are either from a lack of intelligence & knowledge, or jealousy. Not jealousy of my size as such, but the fact I'm happy & confident about my figure & they aren't, whatever their size. And tbh, while there are times its a nuisance to have to almost constantly eat, I am incredibly lucky that bread, choc, cheese etc aren't something I ever need to limit myself on. I can eat all the foods I love, without watching the quantities. And I think that, more than anything else inspires jealousy.