Would you consider buying this horse?

[Flame_]

If you're sure you want him, get moving and get the vetting booked. You can't please everyone, but if you now know he's what you want and his owner wants you to buy him, forget everyone else and get on with it, lol.

 

[splashgirl45]

its your life, dont worry about the others. if you really want him, contact the owner now!!!!!!! think how upset you will be if he goes to someone else, act now....

 

[FestiveFuzz]

Just to echo the others, please don’t wait until he’s advertised to make your move else I fear he’ll be snapped up before you even have a chance to book the vet.

 

[Ceriann]

Echo those who say move quickly. Nice horses are sold in hours at the moment.

 

[Widgeon]

As someone who bought a horse who was a couple of inches too tall, a couple of years too old, a bit clicky and more than a bit too piebald, I would say go for it! I haven't regretted mine for a moment because he makes me feel safe.

 

[Ellietotz]

Right, I got a video of him walk and trotting in hand tonight if anyone wants to PM me to see what you think before I go forking out money!

Another lovely ride tonight, I just bloody love him.

 

[Honey08]

Just get him vetted. And go buy him. You clearly want to.

we sent my stepson’s racy jumping pony back because it was too sharp for him and bought a really cheap coloured cob. He was a 13.2 version of what you’re buying. We thought he’d be too quiet in the future, but would be ok to get confidence back. That pony was such an honest little chap he was amazing. As my stepson got confidence the pony upped his game. They won everything at pony club. His name is engraved on every trophy the pc had, from handy pony to games to Xc. I cried my eyes out when he was outgrown and had to be sold.

But as a slight red flag - my mare’s hocks started clicking a couple of years before she got pretty bad arthritis. So do get it checked.

 

[Lois Lame]

This is becoming more complicated that I'd hoped for...
At the moment, the owner has the two boys with several people riding them in exchange for chores. Since I got involved, it felt like some of the people weren't happy with me and I could be completely wrong but I feel like I am to blame for the owner selling even though she has wanted to do it for years. I did explain to them that they were there first so not to prioritise me riding over them etc and they were all happy with us all sharing.

Anyway, they are saying she won't do it and just to carry on as normal. The owner is saying she is definitely going to sell this time and will be advertising next week.

I am so worried about losing him but I don't want to upset anyone in the process.

Ah, I'd been wondering about this. 'Who,' I asked myself, 'are these people saying she won't sell?'

Ignore them. What you do and what the owner does is up to you and the owner. The nay-sayers are of no concern.

 

[Lois Lame]

If you really don't want to lose him, get proactive and tell her you want him. As others have said, if she sells him elsewhere the other people who ride him will lose him anyway. Don't for goodness sake be in the position of wishing 'if only I had made it happen'. Stop dithering.

A lot of us are great procrastinators for various reasons so don't think you are alone. You're not. Put your brave pants on and do what needs to be done.

[Big encouraging smiley]

 

[Lois Lame]

I know but I just don't want people to be angry with me!
Her fields have no shelters, hard standing, storage, running water or even tying areas so I definitely have the better set up aside from the tiny annoyance of having to get slices of hay individually to the shelter to store it. Worst comes to worst though I could always get the farmer to just chuck a round bale over the fence for me! I just like to be able to manage the hay rather than give them all of it.

I know it is really stupid that I'm worrying about the others but I just feel like if it wasn't for me, maybe she wouldn't be selling just yet!

Aha! You're heaping all the blame on you. Why do we do that?

The owner wants to sell. She's told you. You can't believe it because ____________________________________ [insert daft reason].

But believe us, she really does want to sell.

 

[Lois Lame]

I'd love to see the video, Ellietotz.

 

[Goldenstar]

Just ignore all the white noise and get the vetting booked .
I felt instantly safe .... buy him

 

[DabDab]

Forget all the other stuff and get that vetting booked. You'll get given all sorts of opinions on a video. Without wanting to sound too abrupt, I think you probably need to stop looking for validation for everything you do and start focussing on what it is you want to do.

 

[brighteyes]

My 2p worth, I agree with the poster (Mrs J?) who asked how would you feel if you were told you couldn't have him?

When I went to try my mare I rode her 4times and loved her, she made me feel safe and grin from ear to ear but I couldn't quite believe it would work out. I had so many what ifs it wasn't funny and I developed the attitude of "well if it doesn't work never mind", right up until she failed the vetting. Then I drove off the yard, burst into tears, phoned the owner and said I'd like to buy her anyway (completely ignoring all the really sensible what ifs!!).

Well, you can't leave it there! What happened?

 

[brighteyes]

Also, you could sell him on for at least his cost if he passes the vet if it turns out you were too hasty!

 

[Ellietotz]

I'd love to see the video, Ellietotz.

I will PM you.

 

[Kat]

If he makes you feel safe and happy buy him without hesitation. It is the most important thing.

He will sell in no time on the open market, very ordinary cobs are being advertised for more so don't delay!!!

If you decide to sell on in future safe happy hackers can sell into older age as it isn't physically tough work and safety for a nervous novice is so important. However cobs are capable of more than many people expect and from what you say about your plans I am sure he will be capable of doing what you want.

 

[Pearlsacarolsinger]

Tell the owner *today* that you will buy him subject to vetting and get the vetting booked pronto! The weight of HHO is greater than the weight of a few sharers on a livery yard

 

[Kat]

Tell the owner *today* that you will buy him subject to vetting and get the vetting booked pronto! The weight of HHO is greater than the weight of a few sharers on a livery yard

Also the sharers are almost certainly looking after their own interests rather than the OPs

 

[Tiddlypom]

Also the sharers are almost certainly looking after their own interests rather than the OPs

This, with bells on.

Don't dilly dally sending the video out for well meaning HHOers to peruse and then waiting for their replies, just get cracking buying him subject to vet.

 

[Mrs. Jingle]

Call my a cynic, but you cannot know all H&H'ers are well meaning, we are all hidden behind an ether mist of internet land and sometimes some of us might not be quite what we seem. Personally I would not show any videos or any pics or anymore clues to this horse. You would be surprised what information people can glean from a video of someone's school, yard etc.

The horse is obviously a good 'un and if it passes a vetting, in the current market it is worth far, far more than you are being asked to pay. Keep your hands close to your chest now until the vetting and the deal is done.

Just my personal opinion, cynical as ever but would hate to see you lose this horse to someone unscrupulous who might be VERY interested in the horse you describe.

 

[Flowerofthefen]

I have been following this with interest as I'm terrible at making decisions as well. Your posts absolutely radiate happiness once you have ridden him. It can take years to find that feeling. Forget what other people think of your videos, usually its helpful to have someone look but in this instance if you love him and he passes the vet no one else's opinion really matters. Go and have a serious talk with his owner. Good luck x

 

[Ellietotz]

Right... it is underway!

I am jittery with excitement!!

He will be moving in next to my mare tomorrow and gradually seeing how they are actually in together over the course of the week. Vetting to be booked for 14th and if all is okay, the cash will be handed over the same day!

I have got the agreement and receipt filled out ready to sign. I am so excited! I just really hope she doesn't pull out or he fails.

I think he must have been tired when I took him out the other day on his own, he was just brilliant yesterday. Had a super forward going plod and just feels wonderful to ride, his canter is amazing. We have had a couple of spooks but I don't feel scared on him at all. I feel like I could bury myself into his mane if I was worried about something and he would guide us through. He is an absolute saint and I trust him with my life, literally!

 

[Errin Paddywack]

Brilliant news Ellie, will keep everything crossed all goes to plan. I am so happy for you.

 

[18hhOlls&Me]

Fantastic news!!!!

 

[southerncomfort]

Tell the owner *today* that you will buy him subject to vetting and get the vetting booked pronto! The weight of HHO is greater than the weight of a few sharers on a livery yard

100% this! ?

And please be aware that their is the odd doom monger amongst HHOers who are convinced they see lameness in absolutely every horse they see. ? Frankly I'd leave it to your vet.

 

[southerncomfort]

Right... it is underway!

I am jittery with excitement!!

He will be moving in next to my mare tomorrow and gradually seeing how they are actually in together over the course of the week. Vetting to be booked for 14th and if all is okay, the cash will be handed over the same day!

I have got the agreement and receipt filled out ready to sign. I am so excited! I just really hope she doesn't pull out or he fails.

I think he must have been tired when I took him out the other day on his own, he was just brilliant yesterday. Had a super forward going plod and just feels wonderful to ride, his canter is amazing. We have had a couple of spooks but I don't feel scared on him at all. I feel like I could bury myself into his mane if I was worried about something and he would guide us through. He is an absolute saint and I trust him with my life, literally!

Hurrah!!

 

[Ellietotz]

I am at work and I just can't relax lol! I am literally so utterly excited!

 

[Bellaboo18]

Fantastic news!! ? for the vetting!

 

[ycbm]

Congratulations, looking forward to some photos. He's a bargain at that price in this market!
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