Moomin1
Well-Known Member
ive not read the entire thread and im assuming after 15 pages a fight has broken out lol
simple answer NO..........
if she came off on my horse idnever forgive myself
if she had her own horse however let her get on with it....but on mine...no....
I've honestly just tried to sit here and imagine a scenario where my horse throws a pregnant woman off, resulting in her losing her child. I'm trying to picture how I would feel. Guilty is not one of the feelings. UNLESS of course that person was a complete novice who had no idea what horses were capable of, or I had lied to her about my horse's temperament in some way in order to get her to ride. If she was fully aware of the risks associated with getting on a horse, and was fully aware of how my horse can behave, and she was of fully sound mind, then I'm afraid guilt wouldn't come into it for me. I would feel terribly sorry and bad for her, but no, she made that informed decision herself.
Now if I had ASKED her to ride for whatever reason, or persuaded her to, then that would be a whole different kettle of fish, and I would never forgive myself then..