Sandstone1
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Be that annoying owner, you have every right to know whats going on with your horse. I would be lighting a fire under them!
It’s a shame that they told you they would update you at 9 and haven’t, but based on my own vets I’m sort of not surprised that they haven’t, as mine are still doing all the morning rounds by 10am. So I generally (unless it’s bad news) didn’t get an update til 11ish.At what point can I get cross? I rang at 9am to give them money. Told them I had a 9.30 meeting (which I then moved when it got close to that and they still hadn’t called). They specifically said I would be updated at 9am and it’s now nearly 10 and I haven’t had an update on my horse for 14 hours. I don’t want to be that annoying owner but ffs.
Girl...I did the same thing when I moved Sig to the UK and he had his colic issues. I felt so guilty and blamed myself. That, paired with the legitimate post traumatic stress I had from my last horse's colic surgery and death, it was almost too much. Please, please don't do this to yourself. I know what this feels like and if you need someone to vent to or help provide more much needed validation, please PM me. Happy to hand you my WhatsApp and chat if you'd like.I guess I just feel like I did this to him by bringing him here. Obviously I wanted him with me but I also genuinely thought the best place for him was with me, because he’s not a simple chap. I don’t mean that in an arrogant no one can look after him as well as I can way, but I do know him inside out. So I didn’t feel like bringing him here was selfish at the time. Maybe I was kidding myself.
Except since he’s been here I’ve had to treat for ulcers, he’s fallen out hacking, and now this. So I feel like I’ve got it very, very wrong. Not once in the UK did he have any type of colic.
Would they not be able to quarantine him?Christ if he does have a virus and even if he’s fine in a day or two what the heck do I do with him then? He can’t go back to the barn..
Would they not be able to quarantine him?
At the barn? I guess potentially but I can only imagine how anyone would feel about him even being there
Anyway one step at a time I guess, may not even be that.
Exactly this.Only just seen this, sorry to hear/see Bog's in the wars again. Fingers crossed he's back to his normal self soon
Ummmm horses get viruses, it happens, why on each wouldn't have they him back?
Only just seen this, sorry to hear/see Bog's in the wars again. Fingers crossed he's back to his normal self soon
Ummmm horses get viruses, it happens, why on each wouldn't have they him back?
Because it could make another horse sick if it’s contagious? I guess the vet will advice how long that period may be
He could have picked it up from your yard - I'm guessing the other liveries have horses out and about? His immune system won't recognise all the viruses that they just brush off. That temperature spike is his immune system doing its job. The vets will watch to make sure he doesn't over heat and stay hydrated but it'll likely just need to run its course.Both vets actually rang me and were very sweet so I’ll pipe down.
I guess viral infection is better than a random colic. But where on earth could he have got it. Now I think about it he coughed a bit trail riding Saturday, I put it down to a dusty hay bag which I cleaned out for Sunday. Didn’t hear him cough at all then. Coincidence maybe or maybe not.
A possible virus is definitely better than unexplained colic and he's in the best place possible to manage it. Most viruses just need to run their course with supportive care and he has that. I hope you're able to take a small breath and get some rest.
As far as the barn, try not to stress it too much. Communicate with your barn manager and the vets, once you guys know more you can all discuss and get a plan together if necessary.
We had a horse catch coronavirus (the horse version, not the thing that ruined civilization ) at my barn in KY back in 2019. We quarantined the horse when he was well enoughto be released from the hospital, and implemented some bio protocols for a couple weeks. Despite that no one, not once, blamed the owner or the horse. We have no definitive idea how these horses catch these viruses. There are a hundred possibilities. I hope your barn will surprise you with their support and understanding.
Oh I absolutely did want to put him back on a plane!! I actually started pricing it out and was gathering the courage to tell my friend back in KY that I made a mistake and wanted to send him back home to her place. I was regretting the move, feeling unbelievably selfish for bringing him over, and blaming myself. And with the extreme anxiety from my last horse's colic related death, I was in a very, very bad place mentally and emotionally.That’s exactly what the vets mentioned. Coronavirus. He’s presenting very similarly and it would make sense, that it could make him sick but not other horses when he’s been imported.
Btw thank you so much for your other post, I have read it thoroughly and will properly respond/message you.. I’m just too emotionally fried to think right now I remember Sid having problems but I didn’t realise you too have the post colic death trauma, it’s like our situations are the same just reverse countries. Madness!
I bet you felt like me too where you just wanted to put him on a plane back to the states, as if that would magically cure him.