Muddywellies
Well-Known Member
Wow - that's quite an achievement. WonderfulI got to unaffiliated elementary dressage with a GP saddle and never having a days lesson since I had my horse. I even did our first and only novice test on a BD ticket and came just under half way out of the total field of 22 horses competing that day which was good for a first try.
I would often practice the dressage test in my head only as I never managed to be able to use half the school to practice my test unless I went up at silly o'clock on a weekends morning. I never had a shiny lorry or even particularly shiny tack. My clothes looked like they would fit Worzel Gummidge (in fact I quite often looked like him by the time I'd arrived at a venue) but we quite often won or got placed in our classes. I've seen filthy low value home bred horses turn up for competitions in filthy tack and beat those horses that are ten times their value. It means nothing. Having a nicely marked nice moving horse makes a difference. BUt so does the mindset of trying your hardest and not giving a damn what people think about you.
I think I'm struggling as I'm not a natural and not talented and as someone pointed out above, if you're not particularly talented then the costs will mount up as more training is needed. I do work very hard at it - 5.30am starts during the week. I put everything I can into it to the detriment of other things and people - it is donkeys years since we had a meal out let alone a holiday. And like you, until recently, we towed a very old trailer till we 'upgraded' to an even older lorry. I think I just need to re-assess and have a more realistic idea as to what I can achieve. I think the 'top hat and tails' comment, whilst said with very good intention, gave me a very distorted idea of what I could achieve.