palo1
Well-Known Member
Absolutely this is right. It is such an incredibly un-stated part of horsemanship to be able to identify and cultivate a good partnership to start with where possible. Sadly I think a great many people think or exist in a context where horses are things that you kind of pick off a shelf depending on what attributes they have rather than investigating any natural affinity between horse and person. That is partly because of the 'system' we have here, partly because that sounds very new-age and wafty (lol!!) and partly because 'affinity' and partnership are tricky to navigate and instruct. I always find it incredibly interesting to see what partnerships are formed with animals and how they work but not everyone does that or wants it; some folk want a less 'complex' interaction with animals - even with love and affection as a given that doesn't necessarily mean the kind of metacognitive engagement with ideas about partnership. For me that is central but not for everyone...
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