CanteringCarrot
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I battle with it sometimes, and wonder if my horse should be a riding horse at all...or most horses, really. I think he does it because he feels that he must and wants to do the right thing. He's an intelligent little people pleaser and at this point without a job, I think he'd be a bit unsatisfied because he enjoys interacting with his person and the possibility of earning rewards.
If I had never put a saddle on him since day one, maybe he would've been ok with this too. I don't know.
Whenever he knows we are going somewhere he takes a slightly nervous poo while getting him ready. He self loads but sometimes hesitates for a second, but he's also a bit spooky and not the confident self assured type, so sending him ahead/alone is a big thing for him. Mostly, he walks right on.
I think he really wouldn't do well with someone unaware of their body/body language and with someone who doesn't clearly express their intentions. I feel as though "say what you mean and mean what you say" is crucial with horses. He's so tuned into his person which is fascinating and makes so many things easy. Communicating with him is so easy, and I wish more people were more self aware, but I get that it just doesn't come naturally to some and is difficult. I see so many people misinterpret their horses, so it's refreshing when someone actually reflects on something.
I think it's interesting to think about their actions a bit. Perhaps if Ludo has an easy way out such as not being caught, he'll take it (they're smart little opportunists), but if you've already got him, and then the lorry shows up, he just goes with it. Perhaps it's not that he totally hates it, and obviously he doesn't want to fight it, but maybe if the odds are "in his favor" he'll take his chances and try to evade/go for the easier thing, which is staying at home. As for the eating thing, he may just have anticipation. They don't know where they're going and whatnot, just a feeling of (somewhat normal) uncertainty. Sort of like when someone says, "I don't enjoy x task/it makes me nervous at first, but actually, once I get into it, it really isn't so bad. It's just getting it all sorted out and started."
So yeah, maybe there is an objection there, but not totally. The fact that he's a domesticated and trained horse probably also kicks in. I think they do many things for us because we've trained them to, or they're resigned to it being the easier way in a given situation. Mixed feelings on that and I don't know how much stress it really causes.
I think when it's your hobby you can allow the horse to make more choices and be more relaxed, when it's your profession, not so much. So we have the "advantage" of being more flexible with our horses if we choose to.
If I had never put a saddle on him since day one, maybe he would've been ok with this too. I don't know.
Whenever he knows we are going somewhere he takes a slightly nervous poo while getting him ready. He self loads but sometimes hesitates for a second, but he's also a bit spooky and not the confident self assured type, so sending him ahead/alone is a big thing for him. Mostly, he walks right on.
I think he really wouldn't do well with someone unaware of their body/body language and with someone who doesn't clearly express their intentions. I feel as though "say what you mean and mean what you say" is crucial with horses. He's so tuned into his person which is fascinating and makes so many things easy. Communicating with him is so easy, and I wish more people were more self aware, but I get that it just doesn't come naturally to some and is difficult. I see so many people misinterpret their horses, so it's refreshing when someone actually reflects on something.
I think it's interesting to think about their actions a bit. Perhaps if Ludo has an easy way out such as not being caught, he'll take it (they're smart little opportunists), but if you've already got him, and then the lorry shows up, he just goes with it. Perhaps it's not that he totally hates it, and obviously he doesn't want to fight it, but maybe if the odds are "in his favor" he'll take his chances and try to evade/go for the easier thing, which is staying at home. As for the eating thing, he may just have anticipation. They don't know where they're going and whatnot, just a feeling of (somewhat normal) uncertainty. Sort of like when someone says, "I don't enjoy x task/it makes me nervous at first, but actually, once I get into it, it really isn't so bad. It's just getting it all sorted out and started."
So yeah, maybe there is an objection there, but not totally. The fact that he's a domesticated and trained horse probably also kicks in. I think they do many things for us because we've trained them to, or they're resigned to it being the easier way in a given situation. Mixed feelings on that and I don't know how much stress it really causes.
I think when it's your hobby you can allow the horse to make more choices and be more relaxed, when it's your profession, not so much. So we have the "advantage" of being more flexible with our horses if we choose to.