PurBee
Well-Known Member
i agree, and also that 8 month old and young kids can go to the yard, but it does make it alot more difficult to do what 'you' want. It sounds abit like the OP doesnt want to take the kids?
Im not sure id really happy if i was left with 4 kids each and everyday and would also have concerns about the money impacts of full livery. Having 4 kids wouldnt be cheap
im sure op will return and fill in the blanks for us when she gets a chance, but from what she’s already said, when they split up, she was earning and looking after the kids herself. So she’s financially independent to look after them, house and have a horse hobby.
Also, i dont think dad is looking after the kids every day and night, just evenings when op goes to do her horse, from whats already been said.