palo1
Well-Known Member
He is not wrong. I did a lot of research (which included reading, hands on, discussions, and other training) when I got my first Cane Corso. I had been around them already quite a bit and made some observations, but I took things seriously. They, as most animals, need a clear understanding of boundaries. You don't need to be super alpha boss, but you do ultimately have to be the leader.
There is a bit more leeway with my Lab (and previous Labs), but with these other types that are, IMO, smarter than the average Lab, have a protective instinct, and are more of the "thinking for themselves" type, you really do need to be in the ball with things.
I think that some don't want to be labeled as abusive if they enforce something or reprimand their dog. If done right, it isn't abuse though. Sometimes even being firm, but fair, earns you a stink eye. God forbid you have defined boundaries and/or absolutes.
You do have to hit the ground running too. You can enjoy the cuteness of a puppy, but training starts the day that I acquire them. Some breedersbegin "planting the seeds" even before they go to their new homes. I think some are just like, "Oh, it's a puppy" and go on about it being adorable and it's ok for certain mistakes or behaviors because puppy. To some extent yes, a puppy is not a full grown and/or trained dog.
Funny thing, innit?
I think hitting the ground running with a pup is one of the best things you can do for it tbh. It is also something that I think many people with pets don't do. I am no expert at all but have seen multiple people NOT make the most of that magical learning space when a pup is young; to start recall and other basic/survival skills. And then when they hit 4 months old and are not just cute bundles of fluff, you have to work so much harder so many people give up. I am not talking about advanced training or any kind of work but really simple, safe stuff that can absolutely taught in tiny lessons with great fun. But yeah...people don't seem to bother or think it's important or helpful to them. The thought of any kind of pit bull type without basic manners, recall and 'rules' at even 6 months old is genuinely frightening.