Ratface
Well-Known Member
SO1 - you should be in His Majesty's Diplomatic Service.I think it is important to let her old family know she is ok. The children may be worried and missing her. It was not them that gave her away it was the mum.
How about "CC has settled in well and is happy. I am afraid I am not up to having visitors as I am still struggling with grief over loosing KK and and need some solitude and my ME has flaired up which means I get easily tired. I can assure CC is being well looked after and appreciate it was difficult your family to give her up for adoption".
I shall send a polite and careful reply based on your recommendations.