Ample Prosecco
Still wittering on
Livery yards generally haven't embraced the customer service element that othe service industries have. Most have waiting lists so can get away with a 'like it, lump it or leave' attitude. Many are not trained or experienced in any kind of customer service even if they want to work well. So you are at the mercy of their whims and their willingness to behave in a professioanl way. Or not. And their level of skill in managing people. Which some can't do at all. Good yard owners are amazing. And I would not be one in a million years because liveries are also a nightmare very often. A good YO is overworked, under paid, under apreciated and phenomenally skilful in people and systems management. But many are barely adequate and are still able to be full (albeit with a rapid turnover) so there are plenty of nutty YO's out there making random decisions, changing goal posts, behaving like adolescents or breaking the law. Over my 20 years on various yards: I have direct knowlege of
- YOs refusing professional on the yard because of interpersonal crap
- YOs refusing to let liveries have lessons off the yard with certain trainers
- YOs not haying, turning out or mucking out full liveries on Christmas day. Just leaving them in with extra hay from Christmas Eve to Boxing Day
- YOs putting up stabling without planning permission. In fact I was kicked off a yard overnight because unknown to me, the stabling I was in had planning for personal use only, not commercial and someone told the planning authorities.
- YOs bullying liveries
- YO's being bullied by liveries and letting those liveries bully others
- YOs not feeding horses when owners are away (they'll never know and they don't need all that crap anyway')
- YOs allowing visitors to have pony rides on a livery's pony without permission! (Yes really!)
- YOs hitting horses in their stables
- YOs having stand up rows with liveries. Irrational screaming matches over transgressions like wheelbarrows in thw wrong place.....
- And many MANY YOs changing turn out rules.
And that's not to mention the real horror stories on here and elsewhere of liveries having to escape at dawn for fear a nutty YO will do something weird and wonderful if they give notice.
Personally I'd suck it up in your situation. Good yards are rarer than indifferent or awful ones and many would find your needs challenging even if they were willing.
- YOs refusing professional on the yard because of interpersonal crap
- YOs refusing to let liveries have lessons off the yard with certain trainers
- YOs not haying, turning out or mucking out full liveries on Christmas day. Just leaving them in with extra hay from Christmas Eve to Boxing Day
- YOs putting up stabling without planning permission. In fact I was kicked off a yard overnight because unknown to me, the stabling I was in had planning for personal use only, not commercial and someone told the planning authorities.
- YOs bullying liveries
- YO's being bullied by liveries and letting those liveries bully others
- YOs not feeding horses when owners are away (they'll never know and they don't need all that crap anyway')
- YOs allowing visitors to have pony rides on a livery's pony without permission! (Yes really!)
- YOs hitting horses in their stables
- YOs having stand up rows with liveries. Irrational screaming matches over transgressions like wheelbarrows in thw wrong place.....
- And many MANY YOs changing turn out rules.
And that's not to mention the real horror stories on here and elsewhere of liveries having to escape at dawn for fear a nutty YO will do something weird and wonderful if they give notice.
Personally I'd suck it up in your situation. Good yards are rarer than indifferent or awful ones and many would find your needs challenging even if they were willing.