Bradsmum
Well-Known Member
So unfair. Have everything crossed for a quick and full recovery. come on Boggle, you can do this.
He better hope he doesn’t outlive me, not sure who else would want to deal with his “maintenance”
Don't you dare blame yourself! Horses are very good at getting ill or otherwise harming themselves. Bog is vaccinated against West Nile disease (which we've had a few cases of not far from me in France) and EHV is found worldwide. The UK is full of dangers to horses too and there's no guarantee staying there would have kept Bog safe. You're an amazing owner and Bog is lucky to have you.I really appreciate all your messages, glad I posted even if it makes it seem somehow more real.
If it is one of these diseases and I lose him I will never fricking forgive myself for bringing him here.
It still isn't your fault!
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Would be ironic though if I’ve overlooked a basic second vaccine given I’ve spent everything on him vet wise.
How did a vet allow you to overlook it? Mine won't let me miss a flu never mind a jab for West Nile virus in WN virus territory.
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It's not necessarily on the vet. It's on the owner.
I'm fairly sure Michen is giving herself a hard enough time right now.
Honestly, I think between living in the US and Germany I have a certain sense of self responsibility, and directness...or is it pessimism? It may come off as offensive, but that's not my intention!
For many things, you do not get "reminders" in the US. It's on you. This is on personal health, pet health, various bills you pay, insurances, etc.
Now, if a vet wants to offer good service, reminders and an accurate logging system would be nice! My small animal vet is fairly good with this and has an app. My horse's vet, well, one of them, not so much!
We (and maybe I learned this the hard way too many times) can only truly rely on ourselves. So many people don't keep up with vaccinations, worming, whatever in the US. There is nothing stopping them (I hate it). There is also nothing stopping them from overuse, in many instances.
I'm not saying any of this to make Michen feel badly, or like it's her fault. I may have poor timing and tact, but it is how it is.
Do they know that it's WN related?
No matter what though, it's horses. Anything can happen, and sometimes even if you vaccinate for whatever, it's not 100% protection. You could be in this same situation regardless, Michen. Don't be too hard on yourself.