brighteyes
Pooh-Bah
Lots of us on here hoping against hope for him to pull through. You've done your absolute best and given him every reasonable chance - and now it's up to him. You have had time to prepare, listened to our input (which has been consistent and kind) and had chance to think the options through. If he is able to stay with the intervention given, let him. If he can't stay, let him go. This is just awful and many of us have been where you stand at least once, and we have got through the tears and pain, given time x