SEL
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I'd agree whilst remembering she's very young (19) and wouldn't be hanging about on their yard. It's easy to dismiss rumours if they don't line up with what you see, especially for someone young who wants to believe everything is ok.I personally think who you associate with says a lot about what you consider okay. There are local trainers and yard owners I’d never dream of using because I Know full well they are hard on horses. I just couldn’t/wouldn’t go there. It’s simply wrong.
I know a super talented teen who got a job as a working pupil with one such trainer on an Eventing yard. She lasted a week then walked when she realised how they treated horses. She is now on another brilliant eventing yard. People can choose to say ‘no, I refuse to go along with this. I refuse to excuse or normalise this’.
So if AP is neck deep in with the Helgstrands she should be held accountable for that. It’s not ‘awkward’ - she’s complicit.
It'll be interesting to see if they make any sort of statement.