brighteyes
Pooh-Bah
The huge difference is that you are treating each horse as an individual and meeting their specific needs.
Thank you - that acknowledgement helps although I still feel I fall far short of perfect. The 'comprehensively bust yourself and of course I'll deal with it' inner fight is real, though. Keeping them separated but within 'touching nicely' distance compromise is the best I can do!
Interestingly my TB, who I know was turned out in company, sports the same, tennis-ball sized lump in a very similar spot to the one I saw delivered to ponio, by nutty mare when I (wrongly) thought living almost together for 12 years would likely be bondship. He also has a flat haematoma or seratoma, I'm not sure. on his thigh side which was presumably from the same squabble. Nah, my nerves won't stand turning them out together together. I have had to repair too many kick injuries when I have tried.