Rose Folly
Well-Known Member
One of the saddest threads I've read on the forum. Agree with Susie T, Moomin, Recriverrock, Equilibrium Ireland et al so much.
Frankely, I don't think you are the person for this horse. What I gleaned from your original post was not a nasty horse but a deeply traumatised horse - and all the hitting him then treats, then sitting down beside him is totally inconsistent.
I've had this kind of experience only once, and I won't bore everyone with it here. But it took me about 3 years to undo what had been done to this particular poor mare - and it was mainly neglecting her needs, not bullying. She came to me biting, kicking - she'd double barrelled former owner's son out of the stable, fractured two dogs' skulls.etc. etc.
I'm only a very average horsewoman but who's been around horses a long time. Everything I read on your post makes me feel you are not the person to handle this situation.
I am very sorry that you have to have an op. (and that isn't going to help the relationship any). Please listen to what people wiser and with moree xperience of young horses have to say to you on here. I realise that you yourself are experienced, but we never stop learning!
Frankely, I don't think you are the person for this horse. What I gleaned from your original post was not a nasty horse but a deeply traumatised horse - and all the hitting him then treats, then sitting down beside him is totally inconsistent.
I've had this kind of experience only once, and I won't bore everyone with it here. But it took me about 3 years to undo what had been done to this particular poor mare - and it was mainly neglecting her needs, not bullying. She came to me biting, kicking - she'd double barrelled former owner's son out of the stable, fractured two dogs' skulls.etc. etc.
I'm only a very average horsewoman but who's been around horses a long time. Everything I read on your post makes me feel you are not the person to handle this situation.
I am very sorry that you have to have an op. (and that isn't going to help the relationship any). Please listen to what people wiser and with moree xperience of young horses have to say to you on here. I realise that you yourself are experienced, but we never stop learning!