SadKen
Well-Known Member
When you make decisions for someone else, irrespective of their decision, and based solely on how it will affect you, that's selfish (selfish = (of a person, action, or motive) lacking consideration for others; concerned chiefly with one's own personal profit or pleasure.) I get it, I really do. I'm just not like that, so yes as you say perhaps I am rather odd in that I believe any grown adult can make their own decisions.
But isn't a pregnant woman who is choosing to ride making that decision in her own interests because she wants to ride, and therefore it is equally selfish? Not wrong imho, but there's no denying that the decision to ride by a pregnant woman is exactly the same as a decision not to allow use of a horse by the owner: both are motivated by personal interest and desires.